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How To Deal With Breaking Up, By Pielette S. Bouvedaire |
 Nov 2 2009, 01:40 AM
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 Crazy Fingers  Group: Gentryman Posts: 3,495 Joined: 17-February 09 Member No.: 23,153 Gender : Female Name : Bou  |
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Just get over it. No, seriously. The sooner you deal with it and get it off your mind the better you'll be. Some people will tell you to sit back and think about all the good things that happened... you'll be the saddest person in the world if you do. Just let it go and think no more of it. People LOVE to dwell on the relationship, wondering where they went wrong and how something so wonderful could be over so soon. ^ Do not do that bold text. This road leads to depression. Your best bet is to pray about it and let go. Let God calm your feelings and your nerves and wake up in the morning completely refreshed. :/ You'll be glad you did. ~ Pie |
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Nov 5 2009, 08:48 AM
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Catching On Group: Newcomer Posts: 12 Joined: 9-October 08 From: Oklahoma Member No.: 20,919 Gender : Male |
I honestly think this is easier said than done...
If you really love someone and choose not to think of them and just 'get over it' immediately it could lead to other destructive behaviour in an effort to forget. I'm not talking about self harm or anything, more stuff like drinking partying and just doing things like that. My personal opinion would be to seek refuge in God and in close and accountable friends. When you have just come out of a bad relationship you're going to feel lonely so the best place to go to is the people you know best. |
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Nov 8 2009, 10:19 PM
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Crazy Fingers Group: Gentryman Posts: 3,495 Joined: 17-February 09 Member No.: 23,153 Gender : Female Name : Bou |
O_o...
In other words: Get over it. |
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Nov 8 2009, 10:21 PM
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 Darth Jacobious Group: Resident Posts: 1,321 Joined: 22-March 09 From: In my happy place. Where is that? I can't tell you, or the bad gnomes may show up there. Member No.: 23,590 Gender : Male Name : Jacob |
QUOTE (Pielette @ Nov 8 2009, 09:19 PM)  O_o... In other words: Get over it. Pie wins. |
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Nov 9 2009, 06:03 PM
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 Church Goer Group: Resident Posts: 86 Joined: 11-November 08 From: Marion, Il. Member No.: 21,563 Gender : Male Name : Zach |
QUOTE (Pielette @ Nov 8 2009, 09:19 PM) O_o... In other words: Get over it. What if the break-up was somehow your fault? |
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Nov 10 2009, 01:42 AM
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Crazy Fingers Group: Gentryman Posts: 3,495 Joined: 17-February 09 Member No.: 23,153 Gender : Female Name : Bou |
QUOTE (Miller821 @ Nov 9 2009, 08:03 PM) What if the break-up was somehow your fault? You can still get over that. :/ You might want to make amends with that person if it ended all the wrong way, but you can still get over it. |
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Nov 12 2009, 01:35 PM
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 Bible Thumper Group: Resident Posts: 209 Joined: 11-September 08 From: Florida Member No.: 20,135 Gender : Male |
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Nov 13 2009, 09:30 AM
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 Gallivanting Gadfly Group: Resident Posts: 2,080 Joined: 26-January 09 Member No.: 22,810 Gender : Not Telling |
Pielette S. Bouvedaire. With a name like that, you better make better pastries than Pierre Hermé.
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Nov 13 2009, 12:57 PM
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 Future Overlord, Sith Master, and Resident Immortal Group: 10Ker Posts: 13,665 Joined: 15-July 08 From: Texas, USA Member No.: 19,246 Gender : Female Name : Faith |
QUOTE (Egoleech @ Nov 12 2009, 12:35 PM) XD Win. ^ Yeah, "get over it" is a lot easier said than done. It's not always easy to get over something. For the most part though, I agree. Don't dwell on it. This post has been edited by Skadaddle09: Nov 13 2009, 12:58 PM |
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Nov 13 2009, 01:01 PM
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 Walk on by, walk on through Group: Gentryman Posts: 6,824 Joined: 28-March 09 From: Arizona Member No.: 23,688 Gender : Male Name : Chris |
QUOTE (Jarius245 @ Nov 8 2009, 09:21 PM) Pie wins. Pie wins |
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Nov 17 2009, 06:31 PM
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 Hoping this would take you Home Group: Resident Posts: 1,082 Joined: 26-July 09 From: Dear mr ET. Member No.: 25,107 Gender : Female Name : Rhode |
Pie wins.
wish I had more to say. But I don't. |
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Nov 17 2009, 06:52 PM
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 Chatterbox Group: Resident Posts: 403 Joined: 24-September 09 From: Tennessee Member No.: 26,557 Gender : Not Telling Name : Rayn |
QUOTE (Pielette @ Nov 2 2009, 12:40 AM) Your best bet is to pray about it and let go. Let God calm your feelings and your nerves and wake up in the morning completely refreshed. :/ You'll be glad you did. Agreed. That said, it is a battle, and like all battles, the key to victory is constant prayer and reliance on God. Furthermore, don't wait for time to heal your wounds; time can do no such thing, and when looked at this way it is an idol. You have a Comforter to help, give him everything. |
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Nov 17 2009, 11:45 PM
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If I perish, I perish Group: Gentryman Posts: 3,411 Joined: 1-March 07 Member No.: 10,490 Gender : Not Telling |
QUOTE (Rayn @ Nov 17 2009, 06:52 PM) Agreed. That said, it is a battle, and like all battles, the key to victory is constant prayer and reliance on God. Furthermore, don't wait for time to heal your wounds; time can do no such thing, and when looked at this way it is an idol. You have a Comforter to help, give him everything. ^This. Speaking from experience (not with dating, but with other close relationships that ended bitterly), time makes your forget, not forgive. And even if you feel you've healed, past hurt, anger, and bitterness will come up eventually if not properly dealt with. The Holy Spirit is described as our comforter in Scripture, and He is faithful to be just that when we need Him to be. It's a matter of taking it to Him in prayer, and sincerely surrendering our all to Him. |
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