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Maine Gay Marriage Law Repealed |
Nov 4 2009, 10:30 AM
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![]() Holy Roller ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Resident Posts: 730 Joined: 29-April 07 From: Shadow Moses Island Member No.: 11,217 Gender : Male |
QUOTE Mary Lou Narbus, a 51-year-old mother of three from Rockwood, Maine, told ABC News she's pleased Question 1 prevailed in rejecting same-sex marriage. "I believe that marriage is for a man and a woman... and I don't believe that [gay marriage] should be taught in school, period," she said. Gay-marriage opponents had stressed the idea, disputed by supporters, that public schools would begin teaching children about unions between same-sex couples if the law were allowed to stand. Link I didn't know you could catch the gay from hearing that same-sex relationships do, in fact, exist. Because that's what's being implied: that if kids hear about same-sex couples as they do straight ones, they'll turn out gay. It's like learning that some people bleach their hair will turn you into a blond. Doesn't make much sense, and is actually a very low fear-mongering tactic by the religious right. Appealing to people's fears (especially with kids involved) apparently is very effective. If and when I become galactic overlord, I shall remember this stratagem in subjugating worlds, building massive battleships, and practicing general acts of infamy..... ......and I'll make gay marriage legal! Bwahahahaha! |
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Nov 4 2009, 02:47 PM
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![]() Woosh ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Gentryman Posts: 4,922 Joined: 9-May 07 Member No.: 11,313 Gender : Male |
If and when I become galactic overlord, I shall remember this stratagem in subjugating worlds, building massive battleships, and practicing general acts of infamy..... ......and I'll make gay marriage legal! Bwahahahaha! Are you crazy?! Once the gays start marrying, nobody reproduces any more! Your empire will be doomed! |
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Nov 4 2009, 04:29 PM
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![]() Pope of Christian Unity ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Gentryman Posts: 7,670 Joined: 17-May 08 Member No.: 18,075 Gender : Male Name : Bryce |
I didn't know you could catch the gay from hearing that same-sex relationships do, in fact, exist. I think what's implied is that, because children are sponges who don't yet know how to critically think, their ideas about "relationship," "love," "sex," and "marriage" will essentially be screwed up. I mean, to be honest, it's not as if gay marriage proponents aren't asking people to give up a lot, such as their ideas about society, especially one so fundamental and necessary. This is the first time in human history where its been postulated that homosexual sexual relationships and heterosexual sexual relationships are equivocal. |
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Nov 4 2009, 04:32 PM
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![]() Jesus Freak ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Resident Posts: 296 Joined: 9-June 09 Member No.: 24,520 Gender : Male |
QUOTE I didn't know you could catch the gay from hearing that same-sex relationships do, in fact, exist. Oh my you totally can like in my case!!!! Dun.... Dun...Dunnnn!!!!! I was brought up in a family where i was never taught what gay meant, and the gay couple up the street were "two single guys" and that totally kept me from becoming gay.... or at least from my parents believing it possible when i told them..... hehehe |
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Nov 4 2009, 04:33 PM
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At Loss For Words ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Resident Posts: 571 Joined: 19-February 09 Member No.: 23,188 Gender : Not Telling |
I think what's implied is that, because children are sponges who don't yet know how to critically think, their ideas about "relationship," "love," "sex," and "marriage" will essentially be screwed up. I mean, to be honest, it's not as if gay marriage proponents aren't asking people to give up a lot, such as their ideas about society, especially one so fundamental and necessary. This is the first time in human history where its been postulated that homosexual sexual relationships and heterosexual sexual relationships are equivocal. People were arguing the same thing about Blacks in the 1960s. It was the first time in human history where it had been postulated that interracial sexual relationships are equivocal with noninterracial marriage, and society turned out fine. |
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Nov 4 2009, 04:36 PM
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![]() Pope of Christian Unity ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Gentryman Posts: 7,670 Joined: 17-May 08 Member No.: 18,075 Gender : Male Name : Bryce |
People were arguing the same thing about Blacks in the 1960s. It was the first time in human history where it had been postulated that interracial sexual relationships are equivocal with noninterracial marriage, and society turned out fine. I hope you don't believe that these issues are equivocal. The differences between blacks and whites are accidental. The differences between homosexual relationships and heterosexual relationships are essential; unless sex doesn't mean anything. |
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Nov 4 2009, 04:38 PM
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![]() Holy Roller ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Resident Posts: 711 Joined: 10-August 07 From: Colorado Member No.: 12,949 Gender : Female |
Bah, I'm not proud to be an American again now.
QUOTE ('AquinasD') I think what's implied is that, because children are sponges who don't yet know how to critically think, their ideas about "relationship," "love," "sex," and "marriage" will essentially be screwed up. Eh? I knew about homosexual relationships when I was a child, and my idea's of relationships, love, sex and marriage were not screwed up. This post has been edited by FlyingNun: Nov 4 2009, 04:39 PM |
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Nov 4 2009, 04:39 PM
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![]() Jesus Freak ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Resident Posts: 296 Joined: 9-June 09 Member No.: 24,520 Gender : Male |
I think what's implied is that, because children are sponges who don't yet know how to critically think, their ideas about "relationship," "love," "sex," and "marriage" will essentially be screwed up. but there are gay people in this world, and sometimes when they come to realize who they are might feel as if it's not the possible or equal to being straight. And sometimes there are straight people that grow up and not realize that gay people can actually exist. This post has been edited by Crescentheart: Nov 4 2009, 04:42 PM |
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Nov 4 2009, 04:47 PM
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![]() Pope of Christian Unity ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Gentryman Posts: 7,670 Joined: 17-May 08 Member No.: 18,075 Gender : Male Name : Bryce |
but there are gay people in this world, and sometimes when they come to realize who they are might feel as if it's not the possible or equal to being straight. And sometimes there are straight people that grow up and not realize that gay people can actually exist. Being gay isn't equivocal to being straight (or even roughly equal). Homosexuality cannot be considered the same way heterosexuality can be. Where a man and woman have sex, there is the potentiality for new life. When you have two men or two women, the act ends in the act by necessity. |
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Nov 4 2009, 04:50 PM
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![]() Holy Roller ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Resident Posts: 711 Joined: 10-August 07 From: Colorado Member No.: 12,949 Gender : Female |
Being gay isn't equivocal to being straight (or even roughly equal). Homosexuality cannot be considered the same way heterosexuality can be. Where a man and woman have sex, there is the potentiality for new life. When you have two men or two women, the act ends in the act by necessity. "Potentiality" for new life. So what? Big deal. Not all heterosexuals have sex to create new life. Many do it as a form of expressing one's love for one another. Just like many homosexuals. And btw, not all homosexuals have sex. You can be a homosexual virgin, so the "sexual act" argument is moot. It's got nothing to do with the right to equal marriage. |
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Nov 4 2009, 04:53 PM
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At Loss For Words ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Resident Posts: 571 Joined: 19-February 09 Member No.: 23,188 Gender : Not Telling |
I hope you don't believe that these issues are equivocal. The differences between blacks and whites are accidental. The differences between homosexual relationships and heterosexual relationships are essential; unless sex doesn't mean anything. In the broader terms of gender identity and sexual identity, your pre-existing gender only defines tendency, not what actually becomes of it. Then again, I'm also in the "nurture" over "nature" camp, at least when it comes to sexual identity, so I'll state my bias. |
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Nov 4 2009, 04:55 PM
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Crazy Fingers ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Resident Posts: 1,284 Joined: 25-November 07 Member No.: 14,629 Gender : Female |
QUOTE Being gay isn't equivocal to being straight (or even roughly equal). Homosexuality cannot be considered the same way heterosexuality can be. This is of course assuming that the only goal of a legal marriage is procreation, which I am pretty sure isn't written in any legal statute. |
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Nov 4 2009, 04:59 PM
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![]() Pope of Christian Unity ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Gentryman Posts: 7,670 Joined: 17-May 08 Member No.: 18,075 Gender : Male Name : Bryce |
"Potentiality" for new life. So what? Big deal. Not all heterosexuals have sex to create new life. Many do it as a form of expressing one's love for one another. Just like many homosexuals. Heterosexual sex has the potentiality of life. Homosexual sex doesn't have the potentiality of life. Thus, proven they aren't equivocal. QUOTE And btw, not all homosexuals have sex. You can be a homosexual virgin, so the "sexual act" argument is moot. It's got nothing to do with the right to equal marriage. In which case it wouldn't be very homosexual, would it? In the broader terms of gender identity and sexual identity, your pre-existing gender only defines tendency, not what actually becomes of it. Then again, I'm also in the "nurture" over "nature" camp, at least when it comes to sexual identity, so I'll state my bias. Nurture wouldn't change the fact that a penis is still a penis. |
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Nov 4 2009, 05:00 PM
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At Loss For Words ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Resident Posts: 571 Joined: 19-February 09 Member No.: 23,188 Gender : Not Telling |
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Nov 4 2009, 05:01 PM
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![]() Pope of Christian Unity ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Gentryman Posts: 7,670 Joined: 17-May 08 Member No.: 18,075 Gender : Male Name : Bryce |
This is of course assuming that the only goal of a legal marriage is procreation, which I am pretty sure isn't written in any legal statute. I wasn't arguing in legal terms. Its a fact that a merely legal perception implicates a different social perception. If its okay for gays to marry each other, why would it be wrong to teach our children that there's nothing different between their marriage and a heterosexual marriage? No, but it would change what the penis supposed to do. Remove waste and be a vessel to transmit semen? |
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Nov 4 2009, 05:09 PM
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Crazy Fingers ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Resident Posts: 1,284 Joined: 25-November 07 Member No.: 14,629 Gender : Female |
QUOTE I wasn't arguing in legal terms. Its a fact that a merely legal perception implicates a different social perception. If its okay for gays to marry each other, why would it be wrong to teach our children that there's nothing different between their marriage and a heterosexual marriage? I see that, my point being that interracial marriage and homosexual marriage are in fact equivocal in terms of their legality. Thus making the issue of interracial marriage and homosexual marriage equivocal which you argued against. |
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Nov 4 2009, 07:42 PM
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Crazy Fingers ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Resident Posts: 1,696 Joined: 17-July 09 Member No.: 24,983 Gender : Male |
The legal aspect is the equvication. Not who has penises or vaginas.
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Nov 4 2009, 08:29 PM
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![]() Pope of Christian Unity ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Gentryman Posts: 7,670 Joined: 17-May 08 Member No.: 18,075 Gender : Male Name : Bryce |
I see that, my point being that interracial marriage and homosexual marriage are in fact equivocal in terms of their legality. Thus making the issue of interracial marriage and homosexual marriage equivocal which you argued against. How are they equivocal? Because you just used the word "marriage?" |
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Nov 4 2009, 08:39 PM
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Nov 4 2009, 08:40 PM
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Nov 4 2009, 08:42 PM
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Nov 4 2009, 08:45 PM
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Nov 4 2009, 08:50 PM
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At Loss For Words ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Resident Posts: 571 Joined: 19-February 09 Member No.: 23,188 Gender : Not Telling |
Am I to suppose that body parts have purposes other than those nature designed for them? Nature (Notice I didn't say God, this isn't a creationism debate) does not designate functions for any part. It only uses parts in situations. Their secondary uses are determined by society. Ears are not designed to have things stabbed through them, yet we do it anyway. |
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Nov 4 2009, 09:02 PM
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Crazy Fingers ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Resident Posts: 1,284 Joined: 25-November 07 Member No.: 14,629 Gender : Female |
QUOTE How are they equivocal? Because you just used the word "marriage?" And the word marriage pertains to legality, since marriage is a contract recognized by law. They are equivocal in the sense that both groups were denied a right to marriage despite there being no legal reason for marriage to be denied. |
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Nov 4 2009, 09:21 PM
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![]() Sandwich by day, Batman by night ![]() Group: Counselor Posts: 2,413 Joined: 10-May 08 From: Toronto, ON Member No.: 17,733 Gender : Male Name : Peter |
Silly Americans.
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