I normally dont do this but I really need some guy advice. I am a freshman in college and he's a senior. His dad is my bible prof. I have no clue why I have these feelings for him, since I normally don't fall for his type, but there is something about him! He's really sweet and nice! We've become pretty good friends and I notice myself thinking about him and wishing I was talking to him at random times. I think the sweetest thing he has done was today. I have been sick all day with a bad cold and my whole body has been hurting lately. Well, yesterday he gave me a lot of hugs really close within each other. Today, he knew I was sick and he came up to me and gave me a big hug. Whenever he sees me, he randomly hugs me and pokes me in the stomach. He also will randomly put his arm around me. I know that at a christian college, at least the one I'm going to, guys hug girls all the time. Well, everyone hugs each other all the time. I just don't know what to do though. I have noticed that when I'm around him no matter what's going on, I can smile. Normally, I don't go around in sweats in a hoodie but around him I feel comfortable to go around in sweats and a hoodie. So, I don't know what to do. I don't know if he likes me and is flirting with me by poking me in the stomach and all the hugs or if he's just being nice. He just got out of a very short relationship and got upset when someone spread a rumor that he already had a girl friend the other day when he doesn't.

Sorry if this made no sense. I am all loopy on cold medicine right now and can't think right now.

Any advice would be great! Thanks!

Well it definitely seems like he's a good pick from what you say. If he's nice and smart and godly then you're a very lucky girl to even have met him. Do your best to calm yourself down (since you might not always be so happy in a long-term relationship) and think about him soberly, whether he would make a good husband or at least if he seems so, and feel free to take some time with this analysis. When and if you feel like God's really with him (which it sounds like), maybe you should tell him how you feel. Be casual about it - don't get all cinematic - but let him know that you like him, if he's interested. Don't get broken or anything if he doesn't feel the same right now because God is in control - but if you feel he's a good man then you have nothing to lose by pursuing him.
I'll be praying. God bless :]

It definitely sounds like he likes you a lot. If he doesn't he's leading you on. But yeah; I would definitely say he's flirting with you.

Right now just keep doing what you're doing. If he wants to ask you out or pursue a relationship, he knows where to find you.

Let me ask you this, do you like him back? As in, would you date him? would you marry him? Just try to prepare yourself a bit for the future in answering some of these questions. You're at an age where dating becomes "serious". This isn't so much fun and games as it is mates and commitments; at least that's the way I look at it.

But yeah, my advice, remain available and pray about it. Ask God to help you decide if it's His will in your life to date this young man. Also, being the girlfriend of your professor's son can't hurt your grades

Saaron: I know I won't always be happy in a long term relationship and that's the thing that made me like him. There was one day I was having an awful day and he stayed up with me on facebook chat talking and helping me calm down. Then, the next day he came up to me and gave me a hug! Before I could thank him or anything, he just grabbed me and gave me a hug. It was so sweet.

Pointer: To answer your questions, yes I could see my self in a relationship with him.

Another thing: he gives the best hugs!!!

sounds like a great guy to me
hugs are awesome

Well, my situation just got even more confusing. Today, Ben saw me twice. Once before chapel and once after. Both times he gave me a big hug! Like, normally he just gives me a hug and today he pulled me even closer! Both times.

So...I took the initiative. Today we are both going to see Owl City at the concert tonight at our university. I am meeting some friends and he kept talking about the concert and so I finally asked if he wanted to meet before the concert so we can get good seats. And, I think he's going to!! I'm excited!

I am still confused about the whole situation but hopefully tonight something happens and I won't be as confused...

girls might like leading guys on, but im pretty sure most of us only hug girls we think look good

So, last night at the concert, Ben called me while I was in line and asked me where I was at in line and came up and joined me. He started teasing me about being short and then smiled and was like "I'm just messin with ya Molly" and smiled a weird smile at me. Like...he meant something by it. So during the concert Ben started texting me even though we were sitting right by each other. It was so funny because I went to get the opening act's autographs and he looked at me like I was the worst person for leaving for 10 minutes! And then when I got back to see Owl City perform, he stood really close to me. And I mean...REALLY close!

I can't stop thinking about him. I have been praying a lot and hard about this whole situation. I keep asking God that if He wants me to be with Ben to make it happen. I just don't know what to do. Do I keep just being Ben's friend? Or do I try to "flirt" and get closer to him?

if you can convince him to go bi, go for it!

Why am I convincing him to go bi? He's straight and I don't think I want to date a bi guy....

He sounds like a great guy!
It sounds to me like he's pretty smitten with you.

He is a very amazing guy

Haha, I'm not sure where he got that, either. I like Owl City, cool style.
I think there's a good chance he likes you, but as cliche it is you shouldn't count your chickens. I wouldn't use the term "flirt," but don't hide the fact you like him - I think the wisest way to court is not to rely on tricks, so just be honest and trust that God's overseeing everything. Sorry I don't have anything else to say - praying!

If you like this guy, just express your feelings to him because he can't just guess what you think about him.

Just talk more, get to know him more if that is what you want.
Then start talking serious. If you want to be in a relationship with him that is...