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  2. Yoda

    What's Your Favorite Season?

    I voted for summer
  3. Buoyancy

    What's Your Favorite Season?

    I love late summer/ early fall. The change in the air, the mosquitoes dying, trees slowly changing into vibrant hues, the wind isn't trying to kill us yet. It's great
  4. Buoyancy

    Modesty?

    I never took it off, i am simply busy. That being said, while I can't say some fashion choices are reasonable, much less modest, we need to stop blaming women's clothes on what men's lingering eyes do. As someone who has been blatantly ogled in a polo shirt, ugly work vest and baggy jeans, women are not responsible for men's wandering eyes. Dudes have to start taking some responsibility and using the neck God gave them to look away if they are tempted. You know how many times I've seen a hot, shirtless man at the beach and just... turned my head away? Many. What you wear is between you and God and before you judge a girl's outfit for being "immodest" ask yourself: Is it hot outside? If it is, most women are not trying to be thirst traps, but trying to not die of heatstroke. We already have to wear an extra layer (bras). We don't usually care what men think. It's hot, so you know you're gonna see shorts, shoulders and a mid-riff or two. Brace yourself. We can't just yeet our shirts off and be culturally acceptable. Are her "attributes" larger than average? If her goodies are bigger, they're going to show more in things like tank tops and dresses. She's not trying to get your attention, she's just trying to not melt. If the outfit is appropriate for the setting, is comfortable, and doesn't draw excessive attention to yourself (and to be honest, those shredded jeans aren't safe for life) then it is modest, in my opinion.
  5. Buoyancy

    Star Wars: The Bored Awakens

    Nope, not officially. He'd be living in it for awhile without me.
  6. Yesterday
  7. Lucidity

    What's Your Favorite Season?

    Compared to almost anywhere in the northern U.S., not very. We have gotten temperatures as low as 17° F. and typically drop to freezing at least once a winter.
  8. ComedyMusicHistory

    What's Your Favorite Season?

    How cold does it get?
  9. ComedyMusicHistory

    Now Playing...

    "Those You've Known" from Spring Awakening. The 2006 Original Broadway Cast version.
  10. Yoda

    Star Wars: The Bored Awakens

    Thanks Buoyancy Just to clarify, are you actually engaged? If you're house hunting already for a together house that is already setting a timeline.
  11. Buoyancy

    Star Wars: The Bored Awakens

    Yeah, i am noticing that too. I don't want to wait two more years. mostly because he wants the whole " no smooch until marriage" thing and its making me crazy. I want to smoooooooch. We've been dating two years and I can't do this much longer lol. thing is, we're both older. We're not chomping at any bits like some of our cohorts( except for me and kissing lol). I know a few purity movement peeps that dated and married fast so they could... y'know... And our goal from the get go was building a solid relationship full of depth and emotional intimacy. We're very deeply connected by this point. He's sweet and kind and I am spoiled. We went house hunting today. No luck, but I think i found one online worth looking at it. (We'd be married before I moved in.) \ I have my preferences, for sure, but I am also old. i have been plotting a wedding for about a decade and I could easily plan everything in about a months time and excecute it by spring. My lease went month to month in August by default. If i didn't have so many family and friends, we'd probs just elope. Oh well. Will do!
  12. Last week
  13. LittleMac

    Introvert, Extrovert, or Ambivert?

    Massive introvert I kinda like having time to myself, and I'm okay not having a massive social circle. But even when I want to socialize, it just feels very difficult for me and I feel like I have to leave just to get back to a quiet space lol
  14. Earlier
  15. Yoda

    What Kind of Exercise Do You Do?

    Most of my exercise is walking
  16. ComedyMusicHistory

    Star Trek or Star Wars?

    That sounds like something I might be interested in. I'll have to sometime check out Star Trek.
  17. I'm beginning to hate and distrust technology. 

    1. ComedyMusicHistory

      ComedyMusicHistory

      Is there anything specific that triggered this?

    2. Lucidity

      Lucidity

      When we set up my mother's new desktop, we used a "smart TV" as the monitor. Upon connecting to the internet, it gave us no choice but to set up a streaming account before we could even use it as a television, let alone a monitor. So really, I have nothing against technology itself, but against the people who provide it.

  18. Just went gift shopping for my mom, as her birthday was yesterday.

    1. ComedyMusicHistory

      ComedyMusicHistory

      That's great! What did you do for her birthday?

    2. Lucidity

      Lucidity

      We bought her a new desktop computer! It wasn't a moment too soon, since her old one failed the day we set up her new one. I hope this one lasts for another 15 years. ;D

       

  19. Lucidity

    What's Your Favorite Season?

    Where I live we tend to only have summer and winter, so I'd have to choose between uncomfortably hot and uncomfortably cold. Mid-spring and mid-fall do seem nice though, when we have them.
  20. Lucidity

    Introvert, Extrovert, or Ambivert?

    I'm supposedly pretty introverted, but I think I'm more of an ambivert. Yeah, there are times when I'm tired and don't want to talk to people, but just as often I want to ask someone about their day and how they're doing. So yep, I'd say I'm ambiverted.
  21. ComedyMusicHistory

    Star Wars: The Bored Awakens

    I was just wondering because with the pandemic it seems like people tend to get married sooner (less than six months after getting engaged) or later (more than two years after getting engaged) than they would have otherwise. But, Fall 2022 isn't too long. It's only about a year. A year-long engagement seemed to be about the average timeframe of a pre-pandemic engagement. Either way, keep us posted! And, best wishes on your future marriage!
  22. ComedyMusicHistory

    What's Your Favorite Season?

    With Fall/Autumn starting, I thought I'd ask what everyone's favorite season is. I don't have a favorite season. It depends on the year. There are things I like and dislike about each season.
  23. ComedyMusicHistory

    Introvert, Extrovert, or Ambivert?

    Are you an introvert, extrovert, or ambivert? I'm an introvert but not an extreme introvert.
  24. Yoda

    Star Wars: The Bored Awakens

    Congratulations on your possible soon-to-be maybe engagement.
  25. Buoyancy

    Star Wars: The Bored Awakens

    part of me says elope, the other wants fall 2022. But he hasn't technically proposed so... XD
  26. ComedyMusicHistory

    More Stressed Than Ever

    Praying helps me feel less stressed.
  27. ComedyMusicHistory

    Star Wars: The Bored Awakens

    That's exciting! Do you know how soon you want your wedding to be?
  28. I drove two hours today.

  29. Buoyancy

    Among us or Fortnite!

    Please type using normal letters. Thanks! -Mod Team
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