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bro. bigheart

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About bro. bigheart

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  • Birthday 11/07/1990

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    I'm a major nerd! LoL! I'm into computers, sound boards, MUSIC, and i like driving!
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  1. bro. bigheart

    Masturbation problem

    Brother, I'm very happy to see that you are open to hearing other people's perspectives on this issue. As already established, it is one that is highly debated because of the literal health benefits and as well as the pleasure that comes with it. However, we must be willing to hear each other out and truely discuss things. If we start fussing, yelling, pointing fingers, and etc about issues, then the worldly stereotype of church people will stay the same. However, if this is handled in a biblical way, then the world will see the difference that we have in Christ and desire to have it. I hope that we all can discuss this in a understanding manner without firing "e-bullets" at each other. lol
  2. bro. bigheart

    Masturbation problem

    Brothers, we are all well aware that this is a highly debated topic. Just as a precaution from one who has seen bad debates about the Bible happen, keep in mind that we are here to edify each other as brothers who are dealing with things and are desiring to get closer to God. We are not here to have extremely long convos that do not accomplish anything that will extend the Kingdom of God. Just some food for thought.
  3. bro. bigheart

    I simply cant do it...

    Dude, that's awesome that you figured out what is triggering your impulse to do that stuff. I would highly recommend getting an accountability partner in person, but know that if you need someone to talk to about things I'm here. Just shoot me an PM.
  4. bro. bigheart

    How did you stop???? Lust,Porn,MB,Sex,etc...

    I agree! We have to have God at the forfront of our minds. It will be extremely evident when we don't. We also need to root ourselves in the Word. Icexist, I rejoice with you brother about your victory over this.
  5. bro. bigheart

    Question about being sexually active

    Hold your horses man!!!!! How can you make such a response when Scripture strictly speaks out about sexual immorality? Here are some passages just to name a few: Matthew 15:19- For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false testimony, slander Mark 7:21- For from within, out of men's hearts, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery...... 1 Cor. 6:18- Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body Galatians 5:19- The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; Ephesians 5:3- But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people. Now, this does not mean in any way that one cannot be forgiven of such an act. I know people in my life that have done things in their past that they wish that they could take back such as sex before marriage. Yet, one should abstain from this behavior because it is utterly wrong. Anyone that says that it is not is acting contrary to what Scripture tells us. Follow God and His Word in all things. Double check what a fellow man tells you out of council with what Scripture says. If it is something that is contray to Scirpture, then do not follow through on that advice. Whether they notice it or not, they are leading one astray.
  6. bro. bigheart

    Disturbing Thoughts...

    Wait a minute! Are you saying that it is okay to lust after someone and we should just "brush it off" as if nothing happened? When we fall we need to seek out God for forgivness immediately and then strive with all that we have to not fall back into that sin. This is something more than just a "kinky" thought. To Cheeseisgoodlol: I hope that you are sustaing from this sin, my brother. I know that it is a difficult battle, but I just want to encourage you to keep on trusting in the Lord and continue to focus more on the things of God instead of the things of man. Feel free to message me anytime brother.
  7. bro. bigheart


    Ditto. Do not put yourself in a tempting spot.
  8. bro. bigheart

    Masturbation problem

    Ditto to what you said.
  9. bro. bigheart

    Masturbation problem

    Anthony, I do agree with what you are saying. It is a matter of personal conviction because due to the fact that there is nothing really given in Scripture about the act. I really liked what you had to say about the subject. The reasoing that I will give for my response is for the sake of generally speaking to prevent leading a brother astray. Yet, I still stand behind my response due to what does occur when one does do the act of masturbation. I also want to note that this very topic is one that is highly debated among biblical scholars. So, various views will be found on this topic. I hope that this helps all of us out as we all, as brothers, strive to stay away from lust.
  10. bro. bigheart

    Masturbation problem

    There is a problem with masturbation, however. While the Bible does not speak a single word of it throughout the entire text, masturbation is still not a recommended practice. Why is that? That is because of what occurs while one masturbates: intense sexual fantisies, which is lust which is equated to adultry. Also, the act itself is quite selfish in nature. You are only focused upon yourself and the sexual feelings that you want to feel. So, overall the inital act of masturbation is not wrong persay. However, it is what occurs in your mind that makes this practice a "deadly sin."
  11. bro. bigheart

    Seeking accountability

    MorningDew, Coming clean with your problem through the means of confession is probably the best thing that you can do. I was wondering though if you were still seeking accountability or help in that area? I know that I am in the states, but I would love to help you out brother.
  12. bro. bigheart

    I need help

    Feel free to PM me as well. Do you still need someone to have as an accountability partner or do you have one already? JW
  13. bro. bigheart

    US to back Anti Israeli UN Resolution

    I have to agree that our alliance would be significantly weakened if we do back this thing up. It is pretty much backstabbing an Allie. Yea, we'll go along and help you, but we just won't support you. Israel has just as much right as any other nation to defend itself. However, as these events unfold, we must keep in mind as Christians that this just goes to show how much closer day by day we are getting to the end of this big thing called life as we know it.
  14. I would recommend Boyce College. It's in Louisville, KY. It is also where I attend.
  15. bro. bigheart

    What was your first day of college like?

    I have to admit that it was a bit of culture shock for me. When I first arrived in my dorm, my "snobbish" insides came out through voice and I said, "This is it?" haha. Following that, my dad began to tease me about me being in the army now haha. Anyway, I got to meet all of the different people and got settled in really quick. The thing that I learned about it though is that you have to just put yourself out there socially and be open to talking to someone you've never seen before.