I have well liked this guy for almost 5 months now. In the begining I never prayed, I just liked him and dated him and further further faling in love. The fist part of the reationship was very rough.. To where it made us both into tears. My mother keeps saying he is a manipulator, and both my grandparents got woke up in the middle of the night to pray about me... They both saw the same thing, If I went along with him I would be destroyed forever, that I could end up in jail... He would be an abusive person... and God never just said no, it was a NOOOOOOO!!!... I never saw the manipulation, I put the pain in the past and went along with him. I fell depr and deeper, then finally asking God if he was right... I guess I told my mom he told me no 5 times... I absolutly do notremember that. He started going to church with us and didn't hesitate to raise his hand to be saved. He has put me through some crap, but has aslo raised my self asteem about my looks and I quit dressing in depressing clothing. I got over my stress around alot of people, just a bunch of little thngs he helped me with. Soon after things started smoothing out, after the rough roads, my mom prayed and got a no too. But come on!!! I mean, he is very into things I am into and almost everything I prayed for in a guy, He has... He loves videogames especially the Legends of Zelda!!! What more could I want lol?... he does so many things for me but yet some things you can see are not good. My mom recently made me break up with himcus she's being a mom you know? She's trying to help me I know, but she wants me to have absolutly no contact with him... But, I still talk to him online, It does make me feel a whole lot better, but my Mom ays it will make things harder... I don't see that either.. So, for two days I have been non-stop crying and thinking, If God can do anything, Can he not make him the one for me if you had enough faith? It is sooo hard accepting this... I can't let go... What if we were just friends when were older and not marry? would things not be bad?... My mom says he is oppressed... And oppressed people don't really get out of that stage. I can't stand the thought of him going to Hell, or being in pain. Or anything harmful! It's so had, I know if I didn't give him the thing you cant get back that It might be easier.... I just tonight read on manipulation, there are similarities but not all of it... just at least a quarter of it, and, i leardned a bit on how to deal with a manipulator and what to look for. What if I became very good at it and gave him some of his medicine? what if I whipped him? what if I asked God to be in our relationship? Would anything possibly work out? I just do not want too let go, I want it to work so badly, It literally hurts.