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About Smiilez

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    Writing, reading, photography, old movies, the colour blue, tights and leggings, soccer, sunflowers, sushi, French, baby smiles :)

    when people who talk about things they clearly no nothing about, arrogance, lack of manners,
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    Do you wear perfume?

    Sometimes I wear perfume. I've been meaning to start making my own. I found tons of DIY perfume tutorials online
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    Weird situation.

    I agree with everyone here, I believe you should move on. Do not rely on your feelings but rely on the word of God (look at Proverbs 3:5-6) God's answer to being with nonbelievers is laid out in his Word:"Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?"-2 Corinthians 6:14 I believe God gave us this command for our own protection. Yes, it will be very difficult to move forward but think about all the hardships and difficulties that WILL come your way if you end up marrying the guy (I mean, you're facing challenges now but imagine how tough it will be in marriage and with children in the picture. There are a few people in my church who are married to unbelievers and it is one of the most toughest, emotionally and spiritually exhausting things they are dealing with). Think about what God says about unbelievers and their unbelief: in the book of Psalms (specifically 14 and 53) they are called "fools" for denying his existence. You mentioned that your bf hates your love for Christ and that you believe he may think you're stupid for believing but isn't that enough for you to want to pack your bags and run for the hills? The Bible says that the message of the cross is foolishness to those who don't believe in what Christ did for us on Calvary but we as believers know it is power (1Cor 1:18). How can an atheist share and delight in this truth with you? They can't. It's impossible. Wouldn't it be much easier and less painful to wait for a man who loves and obeys God, who understands what it means to love you like Christ loved the church? (not saying things will be absolutely perfect and without issues with a Christian but you get what I mean, yes?) I hope I don't sound too harsh here I'm just really passionate about this subject and it pains me when I see or hear Christians trying to make such relationships work because it rarely ever does and there is that danger of compromising your beliefs. I will definitely be praying about your situation and I hope God will reveal his truth to you and give you the strength to obey his command. Keep your head up! Check out these links that deal with this subject: http://www.gotquestions.org/missionary-dating.html http://www.gotquestions.org/unequally-yoked.html http://www.gotquestions.org/date-marry-unbeliever.html Biblical manhood and womanhood (what a man and woman of God should look like): http://www.desiringgod.org/resource-library/topic-index/biblical-manhood-womanhood The Marks of Manhood: http://www.boundless.org/adulthood/2009/the-marks-of-manhood ---------- Post added at 10:34 PM ---------- Previous post was at 10:33 PM ---------- yikes what happened to my post? lol *sigh* time to edit -___-
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    Holidays with your bf/gf alone?

    I agree. Avoiding the appearance of sin is really important and something we have to think about.
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    I don't plan on circumsising my future sons
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    (Girls Only) How do you feel about facial hair?

    I looooove facial hair. It's sexy. I love it when my boyfriend has a scruffy face but I say a big no thanks to mustaches ew lol LUCKY! My bf hates having beards cuz it makes him really itchy
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    Stuff You Wish Guys Knew

    It can be amusing, I agree but if I'm having the worst cramps in the world and I'm feeling like my uterus is trying to kill me that's the last thing I wanna hear lol
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    Picture Post

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    How many kids would you prefer in your lifetime?

    I want four I love kids ^__^
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    Dad shut off the water to work on installing the new sink None of the sinks or toilets in the house are functioning right now I really have to pee right now
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    Stuff You Wish Guys Knew

    they should know that it's pretty insensitive to be like "THANK GOD I'M A GUY!" when the topic of painful/difficult menstruation or pregnancy/child birth comes up. idk i just find it annoying and rude
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    Fashion Tastes/Brands

    cute outfit raerae! love your style
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    {FEMALES ONLY!} Immodest Dressing

    Good point Rainbow. Honestly, I've had guys honk at me, try to talk to me BOTH times where I would be wearing a skirt or fully dressed. I do agree with modest dressing...however guys are responsible too. There are men out there whose hobby is to chase after all kinds of girls or women regardless of what they're wearing (of course many of them assume that a girl dressed in tight-fitting, short clothes is easy).
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    Can Rape Exist Between a Married Couple?

    Yes rape can exist in a marriage. It's a shame that in many countries their government do not recognize marital rape (obviously they won't regard it as rape) as a crime
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    Is it ok to wear jewelry

    Nothing wrong with jewellery. Just be modest with it