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About JessMess

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  • Birthday 04/10/1992

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    :] I'm Jess. I'm ninteen, hyper, and incredible friendly.
    I presently am attending a school of Ministry. I work for the city as a Rec Leader and I plan on doing a mission to Uganda in December.
    Also, I love Jesus. :D
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    Writing, reading, music, ministry, people. :]
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    Rec Leader
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    None. I just love Jesus.
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  1. JessMess

    Boy Trouble :/ What else is new? Ahaha.

    Ahaha! :] Thank you! I think all of this is seriously solid advice that I definitely need. Thanks so much! My curiosity over this is because a couple of friends have suggested that he might believe that the fact that he's a dad might intimidate me. I've tried to make it clear that I'm interested (based on how he acts like he's interested) and that his daughter is a beautiful part of him. I'm going to keep taking this slow and praying about it for sure!

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    Boy Trouble :/ What else is new? Ahaha.

    I agree about the people that fall down and get back up again. :] I want to see if I should pursue something more; I just don't want my judgement clouted by my feelings for him. Like God's voice is stifled and I mistake my own for Him.
  4. Hey, gals! I'm having a bit of guy trouble and wanted some advice from Godly girls. :] There's a guy that I'm going to school with. An absolutely awesome man of God. He's a couple of years my senior (literally only like three, and I'm nineteen, so no worries.) and very kind. He has a little girl, a toddler, from a relationship in the past - they broke up a couple of years ago, soon after she was born - and he takes great care of her. I'm 100% positive that he's a good guy - raised Christian all his life - that had a little slip-up in his walk there, but received a blessing out of it in the end. We've been friends for two years. Early in our friendship, I always thought something was different about him, but I NEVER gave him much attention until recently, after an intense night of worship at our Church. I'd been crying because God had done so much for me that night and he came over to me afterwards, smiled, and squeezed my hand. His little gesture of affection there began to alter my opinion of him. He seeks me out quite often for hugs or just to talk, and when we DO talk, his eyes are always on mine in the most respectful way. I'm fairly certain he may have some romantic feelings for me, but I want to find out for sure. What would be a good way to see how he feels about me without seeming too obvious? I don't wanna let him become an idol in my life - pursuing a relationship with him more than with God - but I'm itching with curiosity because he's treated me this way, even before I had feelings for him. I wanna make sure I don't do anything to destroy our friendship because I highly value it. It's just...it's a complicated situation. If we were to get together, it'd be worth the risk; however, if he DOESN'T have feelings for me, it wouldn't be worth finding out. It's kind of a double edged sword. :/ Any help, please?
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    Worship band chicks.

    I used to play Bass guitar in the youth band. ^-^ My FAVORITE SONG EVER is What The World Will Never Take by Hillsong United.
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    6 Worded Story

    I found this somewhere and thought it was cute. :] Basically, write a story in six words and six words only. I'll go first! "Born in sin, I live again."
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    Letter From Jesus

    I was surprised to see that no one responded to this. I think it was specifically for me tonight. Thanks!
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    Letters to the most important men

    Squee. =D I never thought as many girls would like the idea. :] I'm glad I posted this. lol
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    Girl Code

    Amen! lol
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    Letters to the most important men

    =] I thought it was something I should share here after discussing it with friends. Ya never know how much it could impact someone's life in the smallest ways.
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    Girly Survey.

    57 Girl Confessions 1.Is it cute when guys kiss you on your forehead? Yes. =] I love it. 2.A big poofy dress or a short party dress? It highly depends. =] Never too short, though. 3.What would you do if you received a long love letter? Seek out the writer if it's beautiful and not stalker-ish. If it's beautiful, I have to meet the soul behind it. :] 4.Group dates or single dates? Single in the beginning. Group if you all know each other and have been dating for a bit. =] 5.Do you hate it when guys act different around their friends? Depends. 6.Are diamonds a girl’s best friend? God's mine. :] 7.Is your hair up or down today? Up. I wear it down when I go places. 9.Favorite mascara? Nada, really. 10.Do you get your nails done? No. 11.Small or large purses? I prefer to call it a 'bag' and just big enough to hold my usual things. 12.In your purse, what are your must haves? We're all ladies here. :] My bible, my phone, my zune, several pens, a notebook, my sunglasses, my camera [sometimes], and a 'you-know-what' for the 'time'. lol 13.Jeans or sweats? Jeans. :] 14.Do you wear clothes/shoes/jewelry that’s uncomfortable? No. 15.Do you text message a lot? YES. 16.What would you do if you got pregnant? Well, I'd tell my husband. Not happenin' til then. 17.What’s your favorite color? Green. =] 18.Heels or flats? Flats. 19.Did you ever cry during a romantic movie? Yep. lol 20.Would you ever leave the house without make-up on? Sometimes. 21.Walmart or Target? Target is my favorite. Walmart is cool. 22.Do you wear collared shirts? Nope. 23.Do you like preppy boys? Eh, it depends. 24.Do you think lip gloss is the best? No. 25.Do you own any big sunglasses? Moderately sized. 26.How long does it take you to get ready in the morning? An hour at least, if I already showered. 27.Do you like to wear band-aids? No, but I will. 28.Do you like skater boys? Eh 29.Do you often wish there was something you could change? Yes. 30.Gold or silver? Silver, but my cross necklace is gold. :] 31.Do you like to receive flowers? Flowers are the best. 32.Do you like surfer boys? Sure. :] 33.Do you dress up for the holidays? Meh. 34.Do you like to wear dresses? Yes. 35.On a scale of 1-10 how much do guys confuse you? 8. 36.In the last 48 hours have you hung out with a guy? Sort of. Spent a long time texting a guy friend. 37.Would you date a guy shorter than you? Nope. 38.Do you like to hold hands? Yes. =] 39.What is the youngest you would date? 17. My age. lol 40.What is the oldest you would date? Probably 20-21. It highly depends; and he's gotta be a Christian. 41.What do you notice when you first meet a guy? Eyes and hair. =] Smile sometimes. 42.Is it hot when guys sweat? ...Sometimes. <.< >.> 43.What is the best feature in a guy? Smile and hair. Height. 44.Do you like making eye contact? Yep! 46.Would you kill for chocolate? Eh. It depends. 47.Did you ever spend all day/night getting pretty for a guy? It would depend. 48.On a scale from 1-10 how fun is shopping? 10+ if I'm with my best friend, Aprilz :] 49.Do you freak out if you miss your favorite show? Not really. 50.Do you yell a lot? No. 51.Do you wear sweatpants/pajamas to school/work? Nope. 52.Have you ever dressed unlike yourself to impress a guy? No way. 53.Do you write a lot of mushy love poems? Songs. lol 54.What makeup could you not live w/ out? Concealer, I think. It hides everything from sunburned face to...whatever. lol 55.Do you fall in love easily? No. I think I love easily; but falling in love has to mean something. I'm in puppy love right now, though... 56.Do you think you have the bestest friend ever? ZOMG HECK YEAH! Two of them. Jesus and Aprilz. lol ...wait! WHAT ARE WE DOING?! We're continuing to post here when question #57 is MISSING! lol
  12. 1) God 2) Your husband. Okay, it was just ideas based off talking to close girlfriends at church. I, for one, want to begin writing letters to God - my Father, my best friend, my favorite guy EVER! lol - and to my future husband. Who else kind of wants to start? :] OR! Who else already DOES? [i personally think it's a cute concept to hand over a bunch of letters to your husband that you wrote the night you get married.] Plus, I feel like writing a letter to God sometimes is just like prayer; but on another personal level if writing is what you feel most comfortable doing. Like a journal. =]
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    Girl Code

    Here's one! lol Permission granted to go all Chuck Norris on a guy if he breaks your best friend's heart. Always. Forever. =P
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    Kissing Before Marriage?

    I have a similar opinion on it that others do. :] I think kissing before marriage is a wonderful thing - it doesn't HAVE to be saved for your husband; although I have the utmost respect for those who are saving it out of patience and love - and I don't think kisses are nearly as precious and valuable as virginity [which I REALLY want to give to my husband]. But, kissing is something else that should be saved for someone you really care for. Kisses should never just be given away unless you have a strong liking [at LEAST!] for that certain boy. Personally, I think there's a fine line in personal preference on when you should kiss a person. Like...I wouldn't ever kiss on the first date unless - and even then, I'd have to really FEEL that chemistry at that moment - it was with someone you've had feelings for for at least a long enough amount of time to know them pretty well. Just a thought. :] [P.S. I've never been kissed, though. ]
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    =] I love this concept. 10) You're being awfully ignorant. I'd never be a 'freak Christian' - but even if there WAS no God - which is utterly impossible - there has to be more to life than 'you're made by accident. Then you die one day.' 9) I'm so glad to know you. :] 8) Please don't come over to me while I'm talking to you-know-who. I'm not your older sister - and when you follow me around, I get uncomfortable. :/ 7) You're one of the best guy friends I've ever had. =] 6) You're the youth leader that shaped a good amount of the Christian I am. =] You supported me with my first time playing bass with the band. You're so much like a father/older brother figure. 5) I wish you could see what you're doing to him. =[ 4) You don't deserve him. He's given you everything and it's put him into such a depression - frankly, I'm glad you rejected him because you're not good enough. 3) You're the best friend I've ever had in my life. I'm confident I'll know you for eternity - from this point and the parties in Heaven with Jesus. :] 2) These last few months have been some of the most painful and beautiful moments of my life. Your voice is the most beautiful sound ever made by human. Your eyes have so much depth for being so dark. Your smile makes my heart stop and no one has ever made me feel so beautiful and so insignificant by just looking at me. =] I hope God has a plan for me and you. 1) I could never love anyone more than I love You. You came and fixed my broken life. =] Thank you, Daddy. <3