Undesired Attention of Guys in Women's Forum Posted March 8, 2011 very very good thread, well i have had this.. but i just ignored it but was still friends with the guy. and we still are today. but if he would have every said anything about it to me frankly, then i would have told him some thing along the lines of "look you are my friend, more of a brother in a way. but i dont want a relationship with you. i just want to be your friend." hehe but my brother has a story like this, he realllllyyyy like this girl. for YEARS he liked he, still does i believe. and she and everyone else knows this. but she made it very plain of her feelings for him, and now she is still nice to him, but does not go out of her way for him. just because i think she is still uncomfortable about it.