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About StephanieW

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    Getting The Hang Of Things
  • Birthday 05/31/1991

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  • Biography
    My faith is very important to me. I don't use it to get things or to manipulate people. I don't think I'm better than anyone else just because I've realized something so beautiful.
  • Location
    Kansas City, MO
  • Interests
    God, Christianity, Religion, HIstory, Fashion, Nature, Animals, Children.
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  1. These past few weeks have been really challenging. I had a falling out with my friends and before I knew it I felt complelty isolated from the world. Nothing has been going right ever since, and for the first time in my life I feel like I don't know what to do with myself. No matter what I do nothing will turn around. I really need some guidance and so far I'm coming up empty. I don't even know who I am sometimes. All I can do is trust that this is all leading to something.
  2. StephanieW

    abusive ex

    I'm so sorry. My friend went through almost the exact same thing. Praying for you.
  3. StephanieW


    As I get older I try not to judge. I personally don't find pornography to be a turn on. Strangers having sex does not appeal to me. But I don't think people who watch porn are "weird" or "not normal". I spent years of my life not even realizing how stuck up I was, thinking I was better than other people because I avoided more temptations. I know a lot of people who have admitted to watching porn (even one of my girlfriends). Still I don't have any desire to view it.
  4. Yeah I see what everyone means. I've luckily been able to control my urges. I just really want to save it for the man who is special and only him. So if it means I have to wait a while that's fine with me.
  5. StephanieW

    Ask A Guy

    Lol I've seen that but wasn't sure if girls were supposed to read it.
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    Ask A Girl.

    Not for me. Some things I just prefer to save for marriage anything sexual falls into that catagory. Though I've had guys who find it appropriate to send me pictures as a way of hitting on me or asking me out. It's offensive but I suppose they wouldn't try it unless there were some women who responded to that tactic.
  7. I feel like my friends and I who were saving ourselves more marriage really bonded through our decisions. But now that we are getting older many of them are getting engaged at such young ages. Sometimes I worry if they are being driven by sex. Honestly I'm willing to be a 30 year old virgin if it means I am waiting for the person I love to come along. I know there are young marriages that last but I just feel like with everything I'll be going through in young adulthood I don't see why marriage would be a good idea. That's why I hope to find a guy who is not only willing to wait until marriage but to actually wait for the marriage itself. Marriage is more than just a ticket for sex. You know what I mean?
  8. I went through this too last year with one of my friends. But honestly when I thought about I realized that I'm no better than her, because we are all human beings. At first all I could think was how I wanted her to tell me she was just confused. But none of my friends are without sin and I cannot just target her because one of hers is less socially acceptable. Honestly I felt like giving up on her was the worst thing I could do.
  9. StephanieW

    Always Worrying About My Friends...

    I sure hope I can influence them by just being me.
  10. StephanieW

    Ask A Guy

    What are some things you wish girls knew but you would never want to tell them?
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    Ask A Girl.

    I like a guy I can have fun with but who is mature when he needs to be. For me a person who cannot handle themselves in a mature manner seems childish. It's one thing to be able to have fun and be silly or whatever, but if you can't control yourslef then that seems like a problem for me personally.
  12. StephanieW

    Ask A Guy

    What are some big mistakes a girl could make on a date that would make you not want to go out with her again?
  13. StephanieW

    Always Worrying About My Friends...

    Glad to hear there are other people who understand. I always try to be open minded with my friends and remember that I'm no better than them. Me having a close relationship with God is something I'm proud of but I don't see that as making me superior. But when I see them do these things it scares the heck out of me. I mean whether you have that relationship with God or not, I don't see how people can just let themselves fall into these situations. I guess I'll just have to stand by them and keep hoping that eventually I'll be able to be there for them when they need it.
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    11-year-old stripped naked, bullying videotaped

    Makes me sick to my stomach. That poor kid.
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    Whats your social standing at school?

    I got labeled as dumb blonde cheerleader type, a "prep" or whatever. But most people never cared to pay attention to the fact that I was smart.