Sex only violates God's law when sex is had without marriage... personally when it comes to sex and christianity... i just do what works for me. If i have been blessed enough to have discovered something that brings satisfaction, pleasure, closeness, and climax, i most likely will continue that practice. over and over and over and over again.However, some are plagued with guilt because they wonder if what they're doing is sinful. Correct? you fall under this category. Unfortunately, churches tend to ignore this issue, small groups usually don't talk about sex, and most Christian books deal with more "spiritual" ideas. They say "forgive yourself". so... do that. i've forgiven myself a hundred time over.