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Hey I'm not the best person for advices but I'm just going to try and quote some Bible verses about dating. But before that I think you should ask yourself : Why am I with him ? From what I read you don't seem to be physically attracted to him. You also complained about how you can't have a serious conversation with him. One thing I've learned about people's behaviors in a relationship is that whatever they do that you don't like when the relationship keeps moving on, they're going to be even worst. The Bible says to "flee fornication." You stated that you almost had "sex" twice. So how do you know the third time isn't going to be the right time ? Are you fleeing ? Secondly, I can't judge someone I've never seen or talked to so you should be the one who know him best. Has his life changed since he started going to church with you ? If not then he isn't learning anything. If nothing changed I'm sorry to tell you he's just wasting your time. Lastly, the only thing you can do is pray and praise God. God says to "praise him at all times." Have you been neglecting God since you've been in this relationship ? One thing I always advice people to do when they're not sure of something is this. Find time and get a mirror. Look at yourself. What has changed ? Why ? How ? If writing helps you write out your problems. Then talk to God about it. Have a blessed day !