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^ I am sometimes afraid of mirrors... I sometimes have to look in every mirror I pass for some reason or I'm uneasy.. Maybe more OCD than fear.

Guys... What is your greatest fear? I don't mean phobias or fantasy, sifi stuff. Not what creeps you out but reall fear. You dread it you can't think about if it happened. Like reall life things. Just curious what truly scares guys ^_^

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^ I am sometimes afraid of mirrors... I sometimes have to look in every mirror I pass for some reason or I'm uneasy.. Maybe more OCD than fear.

Guys... What is your greatest fear? I don't mean phobias or fantasy, sifi stuff. Not what creeps you out but reall fear. You dread it you can't think about if it happened. Like reall life things. Just curious what truly scares guys ^_^

Failure.

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And guys. Do you find it attractive when a girl has been through a lot and has that understaning and wisdom.. Or is it just sad that she has been through a lot? Does it make a difference?

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This is pretty opposite to what most guys would say, but my biggest fear is fire, definitely. I mean, I don't *mind* watching fireworks on July 4th or anything like that, I just have a huge fear of fire. >.>

And my second fear is being trapped (specifically in elevators).

And yes, I do find girls having been through a lot attractive.

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Fears... I fear being asked what scares me...(ok that one is a joke)

Heights make me kind of anxious...(its more of a fear of falling and even more the fear of impact after falling)

Something else that scares me is a girl who sat in my art class last school year....(she creeped me out :scared:)

Needles... bad... childhood... experience...(the mere thought makes me cringe)

Oh I also get REALLY creeped out when I find out a girl finds me attractive or similiar...

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What are the best five ways to win over a guy's heart?

1. Food

2. Food

3. COD

4. Food

5. Food

Just kidding. Mostly.

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thanks for answering the ? :) .. by mirrors i ment self conscious not a phobia of mirrors lol

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What are the best five ways to win over a guy's heart?

1-5. Treating him like an individual with his own independent goals and passions in life and not trying to get him to fall in love with you via generic, one-size-fits-all techniques.

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What are some big mistakes a girl could make on a date that would make you not want to go out with her again?

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Whats the ideal movie to watch on a date that's half and half? Like it's not to much of one thing. Inception is my fave movie, however it's to confusing for most people lol.

David Cronenberg's The Naked Lunch.

do guys cry ? ( weird ? i know but im curious :) )

are guys afraid of mirrors ?

1. Yes, although mostly in private (although I have cried in front of other men on occasion).

Also, this:

If a guy doesn't cry he is either A) trying too hard to be a "man," or B) Seen/been through too much and has "no more tears." The second situation is a tough one, it's very hard to melt a guy's heart when he's been through so much. Otherwise, the rest of us generally cry lol (At appropriate times)

Christopher is completely right about the second one. Some men just become so numb that they can't cry, even with something like depression.

2. I'm afraid of the mirror people that inhabit them and will steal my soul if given the chance.

Guys... What is your greatest fear? I don't mean phobias or fantasy, sifi stuff. Not what creeps you out but reall fear. You dread it you can't think about if it happened. Like reall life things. Just curious what truly scares guys ^_^

I think I speak for a lot of guys when I say being powerless is a major (if not the greatest) fear. Afterall, a lot of men depend on their physical abilities for their livelihood. For example, I'm a blue collar worker so I depend on my physical strength to do my job. If I lost that, I'd be out of a job. Now, it's not like I'm an uneducated high school drop-out who can't get an office job; it's just you gotta take what you can in this economy and men tend to end up in physical jobs. But it's not just jobs, it's the same with attracting women. Women tend to go for men that are good physical specimens. Also, if a man is powerless, he can't defend the himself or the ones he loves.

Ok yeah, John Eldredge explains it much better than I can.:P

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Is it a huge turn off if a girl is kinda... Sickly? Or apears to be anyway..

This is incredibly vague and unanswerable without details. It could be yes, could be no. I tend to go for girls with a vaguely sickly look sometimes, but it's not 'sickly' so much as a particular look.

What are some big mistakes a girl could make on a date that would make you not want to go out with her again?

1. Pretense and ego. Obsessive upselling of herself via conversation. Pseudo-intellectual comments when they actually know nothing.

2. Excessive formality. A first date shouldn't be an elaborate production. It should be easy and comfortable.

3. Any sort of general obnoxiousness.

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Ok too vague.. Lets say shes pale and thin... Rather frail build very smalll to begin with.. Wears darker colors, could be considered goth or emo but doesnt try ro be.. Sleeps a lot or doesnt sleep at times.. Seems distant or out of it sometimes... So Im kinda talking bout physicle and emotional apearence here..

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:lol:

Ironically enough... I've never played COD nor will I ever, and I'm on a diet. :o:P

And to answer Sadlypoetic's question, some girls that are skinny, pale, etc. can be cute. Not most of them are very attractive IMO, but there was one girl that was a senior in my high school this past school-year and she was like that. Skinny, pale as cotton, and blonde, straight hair. Her eyes sometimes had bags under them, or so it looked like - maybe she didn't sleep that well or something? Idk. (I'm not a creeper, I actually talked to her a few times :P) I thought she was very pretty. Meh.

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What's the biggest qualty guys look for in a girl besides looks? I know men can be very physical and stuff but majority seriously judgemental and all they want is to get drunk or get down my pants?? I've just met way to many guys like this and none of them have been genuine and the guys I hang out with a nice christian guys and can never get past the "friend stage" with any of them. I'm not wierd, *well maybe really random and hyper* I have a normal family, I have a job, I love video games, and every sport except for golf, and can't find one guy at all.

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Ok too vague.. Lets say shes pale and thin... Rather frail build very smalll to begin with.. Wears darker colors, could be considered goth or emo but doesnt try ro be.. Sleeps a lot or doesnt sleep at times.. Seems distant or out of it sometimes... So Im kinda talking bout physicle and emotional apearence here..

That's about half the girls I've been with. Doesn't sound particularly sickly to me.

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1-5. Treating him like an individual with his own independent goals and passions in life and not trying to get him to fall in love with you via generic, one-size-fits-all techniques.
Haha, don't take this in the wrong way, but I love you. XD Truer words, etc!

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^I wanna slurp up your sig pick ^_^!!!

Hehehe isn't it the cutest???

1-5. Treating him like an individual with his own independent goals and passions in life and not trying to get him to fall in love with you via generic, one-size-fits-all techniques.

^.^ I love you.

I think I speak for a lot of guys when I say being powerless is a major (if not the greatest) fear. Afterall, a lot of men depend on their physical abilities for their livelihood. For example, I'm a blue collar worker so I depend on my physical strength to do my job. If I lost that, I'd be out of a job. Now, it's not like I'm an uneducated high school drop-out who can't get an office job; it's just you gotta take what you can in this economy and men tend to end up in physical jobs. But it's not just jobs, it's the same with attracting women. Women tend to go for men that are good physical specimens. Also, if a man is powerless, he can't defend the himself or the ones he loves.

As soon as I read the first sentence I agreed with you. I can see that in a lot of guys in my life. Being weak seems to embarrass a man more than anything.

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