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^ I guess I might have to get on some heavy meds then:(

I used to be scared of socail gatherings too. Turned out I needed some vision issues corrected. Go figure. I'd say see if you've got some kind of vision problem before you go on some medication.

Is playfully calling a girl miss a sign that you're flirting?

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I used to be scared of socail gatherings too. Turned out I needed some vision issues corrected. Go figure. I'd say see if you've got some kind of vision problem before you go on some medication.

Is playfully calling a girl miss a sign that you're flirting?

It's not so much gatherings. It's any situation were I'm seen heard and judged which is pretty much any time I'm seen or heard. Being OCD I did a bunch of research and figured out what I believe caused.

I got 20/20 vision though.

I'm luck I live out in the country if I had close neighers I wouldn't go out doors.

I know it's pathetic bu I can't really help it it's medical and psychological.

Doesn't make it feel any better though just cause I can't help it.

Guys what's a good way to tell a you like him?

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Umm guys. What would you think if a girl said she couldn't go to the grocery store or walk across the street and ect. By herself cause of debilitating social anxiety? Would that sound reall pathetic and make you think poorly of her?

I'm just re-asking cause this was on the last page and I only got one answer...

And guys would it be a big issue if your gf's mom wouldn't let you hugor hold hands?

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Dyed hair? Like it, leave it,doesn't matter unless it looks fake...doesn't matter period? I'm curious...

I like any and all dyed hair as long as it looks nice.

And guys would it be a big issue if your gf's mom wouldn't let you hugor hold hands?

yes, because it sets a tone of irrationality that would never have a cessation as long as I remain in a relationship with that girlfriend. And if we one day get married it seems the mother will always have some sort of criticism for me, my gf, or us both.

Umm guys. What would you think if a girl said she couldn't go to the grocery store or walk across the street and ect. By herself cause of debilitating social anxiety? Would that sound reall pathetic and make you think poorly of her?

No i would certainly not think poorly of her, I would feel bad for her and try to help her. And the first thing I would do is take her to a busy intersection, take off my pants and walk across the street in my boxers, then I would walk back to her on the other side and eloquently explain to her that no street crossing will ever be as socially awkward as the one she just witnessed and she would do well to remember it next time and take solace in the fact that she walks across the street fully clothed which will in turn reduce the anxiety associated with it.

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This sounds kind of silly...what does it *usually* mean if a guy tells you that you're gorgeous? Like, is it a step above "beautiful"? Is there really that much significance in word usage between pretty/beautiful/gorgeous? A guy I've kind of been talking to always greets me with, "Hey gorgeous." It's endearing..but I'm just kind of curious if there is a specific meaning tied to that word? Or if it just means he finds me attractive? Lol.

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Oh Matt that made me smile so big.

Well it's a relief that maybe my irl guy friends won't think I suck(if I ever have any) because of this.

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Guys what's a good way to tell a you like him?

Shave "Will you go out with me? (circle: yes/no)" into the side of a goat and let it loose in his backyard.

DISCLAIMER: This could be misconstrued by the guy.

And guys would it be a big issue if your gf's mom wouldn't let you hugor hold hands?

Yeah, partially because it would mean I'm a 20 yr old guy dating a 14 yr old. :P

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Dyed hair? Like it, leave it,doesn't matter unless it looks fake...doesn't matter period? I'm curious...

If you're going for blonde or brown/ highlights/ natural look, it has to look natural.

Completely fake bright colours are fantastic (if you can handle having hair like that O_o).

Non-natural black hair... i dunno, sometimes it works.

And guys would it be a big issue if your gf's mom wouldn't let you hugor hold hands?

That would be super awkward. That just seems like the mother is telling the boyfriend to fudge off.

This sounds kind of silly...what does it *usually* mean if a guy tells you that you're gorgeous? Like, is it a step above "beautiful"? Is there really that much significance in word usage between pretty/beautiful/gorgeous? A guy I've kind of been talking to always greets me with, "Hey gorgeous." It's endearing..but I'm just kind of curious if there is a specific meaning tied to that word? Or if it just means he finds me attractive? Lol.

There's not really any difference between gorgeous or beautiful. Pretty on the other hand, as guy we get told not to call girls pretty because it is apparently too bland and just seems like something we don't mean. Doesn't mean we will remember to not call you pretty though =P.

Yeah, partially because it would mean I'm a 20 yr old guy dating a 14 yr old. :P

20yr olds can live with their mothers too =O

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Oops, sorry thought of some more:

1) What is your opinion on shy girls, are they dull or endearing?

2) This one sounds really strange I know but would it bother you if your girlfriend was a lot shorter than you or looked a lot younger even if they acted mature and stuff?

Shy girls almost always come across as endearing.Like, I just want to hug you!

No, I would like it, i don't want a girl who looks older than me, or taller. I like girls small and feminine.

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Is playfully calling a girl "Miss (insert first name here) " youre way of being flirtatious?

I need an answer!

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This sounds kind of silly...what does it *usually* mean if a guy tells you that you're gorgeous? Like, is it a step above "beautiful"? Is there really that much significance in word usage between pretty/beautiful/gorgeous? A guy I've kind of been talking to always greets me with, "Hey gorgeous." It's endearing..but I'm just kind of curious if there is a specific meaning tied to that word? Or if it just means he finds me attractive? Lol.

If I call a girl gorgeous, it's because I want to make her smile,because I like her, and love it when she smiles/is happy. But I would also only say that if I actually thought she WAS gorgeous of course,and I would not say it to a "just friend".

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I used to be scared of socail gatherings too. Turned out I needed some vision issues corrected. Go figure. I'd say see if you've got some kind of vision problem before you go on some medication.

Is playfully calling a girl miss a sign that you're flirting?

I was once called "Miss Prefect" by a guy working in Subway when I went in in my uniform and I hadn't been sacked from being a school prefect, accompanied by that look. He possibly just had a creepy Catholic schoolgirl thing. XD So watch out for that one.

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Shave "Will you go out with me? (circle: yes/no)" into the side of a goat and let it loose in his backyard.

DISCLAIMER: This could be misconstrued by the guy.

Yeah, partially because it would mean I'm a 20 yr old guy dating a 14 yr old. :P

Lol!

And actually I'm 17. But I'm still a minor till I'm 18 and even then till I'm married and moved out it's my moms way or well.. My moms way.

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again something I would say to try to get a smile out of her. And yeah I would be in a flirty mood most likely.

Good. The guy who said that to me is one I've been crushing on. :D

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What is the most irritating thing a girl can do that could instantly make your impression of her go down?

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What is the most irritating thing a girl can do that could instantly make your impression of her go down?

Say any of the following:

"Ugh, another sandwich? Oh em gee, do you ever get full?"

"I think I'll stop shaving my legs."

"Maybe I should start shaving my pits."

"Rock music is just so boring." (This is the first serious one, by the way)

"I sold all of my Dad's old vinyls so I could get some more shoes. It's not like he needed them anyway."

"Who's Queen?"

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"Who's Queen?"

:o How can anyone NOT know who Queen are!!! They're awesome! :D

My question: I always hear guys say they don't see the difference when a girl wears make up, is that honestly true? I don't cake it on and generally just wear mascara or eye liner becaue my eyelashes are fair, but can you really not notice when we are or are not wearing makeup?

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:o How can anyone NOT know who Queen are!!! They're awesome! :D

My question: I always hear guys say they don't see the difference when a girl wears make up, is that honestly true? I don't cake it on and generally just wear mascara or eye liner becaue my eyelashes are fair, but can you really not notice when we are or are not wearing makeup?

I know, right? D: I mean, Queen is something everyone should listen to at some point.

I can only tell when it's something obvious like eyeliner, but that's about it. But if I *can* tell if a girl's wearing make-up, that means they're wearing too much. D:

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LAWL. Random though...but related. I know a girl who thought John Lennon was the lead singer of Queen. :3

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LAWL. Random though...but related. I know a girl who thought John Lennon was the lead singer of Queen. :3

Fail!

fill in the blank: girls who listen to Oldies are _______________

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Fail!

fill in the blank: girls who listen to Oldies are _______________

girls who listen to Oldies are girls with an affinity for older music.

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My question: I always hear guys say they don't see the difference when a girl wears make up, is that honestly true? I don't cake it on and generally just wear mascara or eye liner becaue my eyelashes are fair, but can you really not notice when we are or are not wearing makeup?

Whether I notice or not is one thing, but do I care? No I do not care unless the girl looks like some sort of subterranean creature without makeup, in which case she should apply make up for her own peace of mind. But I notice when make up is over done. I once had a purely academic relationship with a girl who put so much make up on her face it seemed as though she was formed from clay.. not metaphorically but quite literally. I could smell the chemicals from several inches away.

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What kind of emotions does it provoke when a girl you care about is upset or sad?

And also what do you think about girls with self esteem issues and are insecure/unsure of themselves?

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