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I am bored atm so before I go read something I will leave this topic for discussion. I am wondering what people think of sexual experience enhancing objects. Some people think they are wrong, some think it is just another way to make things better. Your opinion would be appreciated.

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I put "not wrong" - I see no reason for them to be wrong, but I didn't put "great!", because I really couldn't confirm or deny. I wouldn't have thought they'd be great, to be honest.

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Not wrong. Never used one, so I can't comment on whether they are great or not. Why on earth would they be wrong? What two consenting adults want to do inprivate is no-one else's business.

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It doesnt really bother me, as long as it is used in a loving married relationship. :)

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A lot of you are adding in that it's okay between two consented and married people, but what about if you're single?

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A lot of you are adding in that it's okay between two consented and married people, but what about if you're single?[/b]

I don't see why they should be an issue for a single guy (or girl) as long as it doesn't lead to lustful thoughts. For example, a blow-up doll wouldn't be the best choice of toys. But a (and I hope I can talk freely here) cockring or fleshlight wouldn't be so bad.

If you want to talk more, you're welcome to contact me. Mods, I apologize if I was too frank in my example.

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I don't see the issue of them being bad if you are single, in a relationship, or married unless they cause trouble with your God walk, your partner, or your spouse.[/b]

Agreed.

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I don't see the issue of them being bad if you are single, in a relationship, or married unless they cause trouble with your God walk, your partner, or your spouse.[/b]

Agreed. Sex is meant to be enjoyable. If toys help with that and aren't making you stumble. Then more power to you

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Agreed. Sex is meant to be enjoyable. If toys help with that and are making you stumble. Then more power to you[/b]

I am getting the feeling you said something wrong...

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I am getting the feeling you said something wrong...[/b]

Haha, i did. that was supposed to be aren't

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CSE Guidelines: While sexual matters are allowed to be discussed as issues, some specific sexual acts are not to be discussed.

Please do not be so specific. Also (re)read the guidelines if you need clarification on how this forum works.

Thanks.

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CSE Guidelines: While sexual matters are allowed to be discussed as issues, some specific sexual acts are not to be discussed.

Please do not be so specific. Also (re)read the guidelines if you need clarification on how this forum works.

Thanks.[/b]

Isn't this forum made for discussing sexual ethics and the like that are normally not allowed for an audience below 16? Being specific (when necessary) makes issues and topics here more understandable, and make for a better discussion and understanding of what is currently on hand.

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Isn't this forum made for discussing sexual ethics and the like that are normally not allowed for an audience below 16? Being specific (when necessary) makes issues and topics here more understandable, and make for a better discussion and understanding of what is currently on hand.[/b]

If you have a problem with an action, please take it to PM like the rules and guidelines state. Discussion of a sexual theme is allowed, yes, but that doesn't mean we're going to allow members to talk about things we deem inappropriate.

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I said that they are great. I have many female friends who have recently been married and quite a few of them have mentioned experiancing some difficulties in the bedroom. Not that things aren't enjoyable, but they aren't enjoying themselves quite as much as their husbands and find that they need a little assistance. According to some of my psychopathology classes, this isn't unusual at all. So if it helps a married woman enjoy herself (thus preventing her from becoming fridgid and depriving her husband) they are definately great by my standards.

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^3The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4The wife's body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband's body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife. 5Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.

I think they're fine. They won't be a necessity in my sex life with my husband, but if he wants them, that's totally fine.

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Me and my partner both think that toys are not a very good thing to be using if you are with God and you have been 'reborn'. Thing is, we think what our Lord has given us is not to be used as pleasure when we feel like it, but to be used when we have a special connection together, me and my baby. That's why we don't do any of that. No masturbation, no pornography, nothing. With God's love we will get married in the future and in the name of the Lord we will make very special love together. We need to be patient because we both know God will give us the time to do everything we like. Even when we make love, it's going to be very beautiful because God is going to be with us and we have waited patiently for a moment together.

Yes, there have been occasions that we had chances to have sex in the past (before we gave ourselves up to God), but we didn't. Ultimately we realized all these feelings of desire are not very healthy for each other due to many mistakes that can be done having irresponsible sex, or as my and my baby call it, making love.

We both believe sex and making love are two different things.

We believe sex is something you do for pleasure, for desire, to have fun, to experiment, to do wild things, one night stands, with anyone, bad things overall including unwanted pregnancies. (This isn't aimed at anyone, it's just our way of belief).

Now to us, making love means sharing a special connection with your partner. A moment that God gives you to love one another humbly and you know that person is the only person you will be with for the rest of your life. No rush! No desperation! A very beautiful thing between you and your partner and believing in God at the same time.

We al have our ways of life. These are just our opinions.

I always thank God for putting such a special person in my path. A person I asked God for. A person that will love me until the end, no matter what, no matter the economy, sickness or anything else. True love.

I'm so happy and I continue to love my God for such wonderful presents He's given us!!

May we get married and live happily together!!

Thank you Lord.

Amen!

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