ajhshajdjadjjadjadjjdh Posted July 23, 2010 Share Posted July 23, 2010 I finally make a good topic! xD Anyways, do you have a girl bestfriend? I have. But she's very overprotective...so I can't freakin' go and have time with the girl I like because of her. Should I cut our relationship? You can also post here if you do have a girl BF. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Holy Rollin Swami Posted July 23, 2010 Share Posted July 23, 2010 Oh yeah, I have a girl best friend too. We actually had a little thing between us at one time, but we were so close that we decided that it might damage our relationship. On your question, I wouldn't sever ties with her, I mean she's your best friend right? Just explain to her that you feel she is not allowing you to do things and also remember that she isn't your mother, take her feelings to heart but don't let them control you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crescentheart Posted July 23, 2010 Share Posted July 23, 2010 I mean you shouldn't sever ties with your best friend, that's why she's your best friend. Just tell her you want to go out with the girl you like and do it, help her find a guy to go out with or at least support her in that area. My best friend is a girl and our friendship works out perfectly actually. Whenever there is someone I like she fully supports me in pursuing them and she will give me tips and advice and i do the same for her. We don't get jealous of each other's "special person" The only thing slightly complicated about having her as my BFF is that most people think we are in a relationship, most of our friends think we are getting married, but we just laugh about it and tell people we aren't together xD. But we do tend to act like a couple a lot (holding hands in public, hugging, and we just get excited around each other because we are best friends) Just make sure you don't forget she is your best friend so dont like drop her like chopped liver when you have someone you like.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Foofer Posted July 23, 2010 Share Posted July 23, 2010 My neighbor is my best friend, but I'm not sure if I'm her best friend, know what I mean? I simply don't have alot of friends irl, and she has tons from what I see. So it's kinda odd... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JordanL Posted July 23, 2010 Share Posted July 23, 2010 Yes, in fact most of my friends are girls.. Hmm. But my best friend is steph (breatheyouin) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ajhshajdjadjjadjadjjdh Posted July 24, 2010 Author Share Posted July 24, 2010 ^Same here. *coughmostboyscarebulliescough* We fought about something, which I don't have any idea, yesterday. Then everybody suddenly was angry at me. Maybe because I went with my crush because she lost on a deal and she should treat me. That's the problem. Like last school year, I had this MU with a girl, but I STOPPED it, and she said she wanted me to go her house because she will give something to me. Then here's my BF again, she stopped me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alphacaveman Posted July 25, 2010 Share Posted July 25, 2010 I do. We've been friends forever. She was never over protective of the girls I dated. She figured I knew what I wanted. We have a connection that is unbreakable. Effortless. Not sure where I'm going with this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coker Posted July 26, 2010 Share Posted July 26, 2010 Like last school year, I had this MU with a girl, but I STOPPED it, and she said she wanted me to go her house because she will give something to me. Then here's my BF again, she stopped me.[/b] I'm sorry, but MU? What's that? And, I have had girl best friends in the past, though I guess I'd say my ex-GF is the closest thing I have to a girl best friend now (we obviously broke up on good terms). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ajhshajdjadjjadjadjjdh Posted July 28, 2010 Author Share Posted July 28, 2010 ^MU=mutual understanding. Or so they say. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Themeiwanttobe Posted July 28, 2010 Share Posted July 28, 2010 I had a girl bestfriend. She later turned into my girlfriend, but that's a different story. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heyitsbkay Posted July 28, 2010 Share Posted July 28, 2010 well i am a girl with a guy bestfriend so i think i can help... i think she is like that because maybe she likes you, i know when i used to like my best guy friend i would get upset when he would go and hang out with the girl he liked, but i never stopped him. as your best friend she is supposed to be happy for you and support you. i don't think you ahould cur her out of your life just yet, sit down and talk with her about how you are feeling decide together how to fix it. it is totally not worth ruining a friendship over. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jaycawbz Posted July 29, 2010 Share Posted July 29, 2010 My best friend is a girl. Probably the sweetest gal I know. She's like my mother though. Drives me crazy, in a good way, I suppose. It's kinda funny. She's sometimes worse than my mother. She nagged me until I stopped drinking Coca-Cola because she thought I was drinking too much (which was probably true. I averaged about 120 ounces of coke daily.) xDDDDD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ajhshajdjadjjadjadjjdh Posted July 29, 2010 Author Share Posted July 29, 2010 (edited) Okay, I talked to her after the school hours...Hmmm....She said that she didn't want me to end up with a girl who's an emo, etc, etc. So yeah, it's done. Now, I understand. I had a girl bestfriend. She later turned into my girlfriend, but that's a different story. I dunno, I hate to know someone, who's close to me, has a crush on me. Insecure! Edited July 29, 2010 by JordanL Double Post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JesusIsLife1993 Posted July 29, 2010 Share Posted July 29, 2010 I like this post: because I don't just have one girl bestfriend: I have LOTS! I'm friends with pretty much all girls and it's very.... interesting... to say the least. But I love it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Irish Posted July 30, 2010 Share Posted July 30, 2010 Sure do. She's an active member of CTF, too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jaycawbz Posted July 30, 2010 Share Posted July 30, 2010 What do you all think about having a girl as a best friend? Do you think it's more healthy to have a guy as a best friend, or no? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ajhshajdjadjjadjadjjdh Posted July 30, 2010 Author Share Posted July 30, 2010 What do you all think about having a girl as a best friend? Do you think it's more healthy to have a guy as a best friend, or no? I have 2 bestfriends, a guy and a girl.My guy bestfriend is a college student already, my gal bestfriend is my classmate. Guy BF=Games, games, games Gal BF= Lot of fun, awesomeness. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
burningseraphim Posted July 31, 2010 Share Posted July 31, 2010 yes my best friend is a girl. I love her to death. I get to hang out with her tomorrow and go to a concert. She's awesome. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snickers Posted August 7, 2010 Share Posted August 7, 2010 My best friend is my sister....Yeah....corny haha. But im the overprotective one Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LewieGee Posted August 8, 2010 Share Posted August 8, 2010 My best friend's a girl. However, she's not Christian, and although that isn't a problem, I sometimes find myself sinning more in her company, perhaps of her influence. I can't let my guard down, I suppose. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joe716 Posted August 9, 2010 Share Posted August 9, 2010 Yea, its possible to have a non-sexual relationship with a girl. Be careful though. I have a friend that is a girl, but she does not know that I like her alot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fluffytree2012 Posted August 9, 2010 Share Posted August 9, 2010 Yea, for me, most all my friends are girls and I'm really close to them all. I have a ton of best friends and only one or two of them is a guy. I don't see anything wrong with it really because guys are simply put, guys. For example, have you ever noticed for every word you can think of to say to a guy, there are like 10 you can think of to say to a girl? I think the reason we're like this is because girls create more conversation, and we see girls as having more conversation than us guys, but thats just the way I see it. Tell me what you guys think. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crimson Truth Posted August 9, 2010 Share Posted August 9, 2010 My best friend is a girl, I'm not her best friend but yeah. She helps me with my relationships and stuff and I help her with hers. Works well actually... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
existIc Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 Yup i've got one and she became my gf. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ignited Hero Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 Yeah I have a Girl Bestfriend. a few of them actually lol. One though people prolly think we an odd couple. On one side the devout Christian guy called into the youth ministry, on the other hand, the girl with a little of a rebel streak. odd couple? Yes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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