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It Will Get Better

Life always has its ups and downs. We will always be going through temptations and trials, (especially in our daily walk with God). But isn’t it great to know that we can give all our troubles to God and let Him handle them for you, knowing that He will always be there and provide you with everything you would ever need in abundance? Obviously, the answer would be yes, but some people may not always see it that way. When life can get pretty painful and overwhelming at times, it can be easy to wonder and ask, “Why God? Why is this happening?” It might have you question your faith sometimes. There may even be a time when you get so angry and confused with a situation, you want to turn away from God. And that’s exactly what I did. I renounced God and began thinking about going on a road to sin and a hardened heart. I never fully succeeded with that plan thanks to a few people God placed in my life.
 
 
A few years ago on November 9th, I felt so confused and angry at God. All I could feel was this very strong resentment and fury on the inside. Just when I thought I was about to get closer to Him and grow stronger in my faith, that day just really took me by the storm. I acted very childish by indulging in self-pity and threw a rebellious temper tantrum because I felt like God had shoved His purpose in my face only to ****** it from me and leave me in the dirt, despite prayer. It made me question my worth and existence. Whether God really loved me or not. What I never realized was that during that season, God had actually been working in my heart and showing me where I truly was spiritually. I saw things about myself I never imagined and they were ugly. They led me to reevaluate my life and the motives I was carrying around. It dawned on me that I didn’t fully understand what being a true committed Christ follower was.
 
 
I didn’t really grow up in a Christian home. My dad’s very stale in his Christian faith and I don’t think my mom really cares for God. God was rarely brought up in our home and we didn’t go to church. In the 8th grade, I remember asking my dad about God and he decided it’d be best to talk to a buddy of his from work who’s a devout Christian. The conversation lasted about an hour or two and I barely remember what was said that night....It’s sad, really. I remember being asked if I wanted to pray to accept Jesus as my Savior towards the end and I prayed that as I got home since I was self-conscious about praying in front of people. As I look back, I realized I didn’t see a significant change in me. I had a desire to read the Bible and go to church, but they were very fleeting. It seemed as if I was only playing a “Get Out Of Hell” Free card. I had no commitment, if I did, it wasn’t obvious to me. I was apathetic, lazy, living in isolation, selfish, and staying in my comfort zone. It continued that way until I was introduced to the Navigators in college. Nothing changed drastically the first year I was affiliated with them. It felt more like a routine. Bible study every Thursday at noon. Don’t get me wrong, I enjoyed going there for Bible study, fellowship, and of course pizza...hey, who doesn’t like pizza? Well, fast forward to Summer and Fall of 2013, and I’m in a place where I hated myself and compared myself to others constantly. I remember thinking why God created me the way I was and wondered if I really had a purpose. 
 
 
Skip to November and I was suddenly filled with hope because things looked like they were falling into place as I tried to devote myself to prayer and read my Bible. But then on November 9th, this “purpose” which I thought was coming true suddenly shattered in my face leaving sharp remnants of hopelessness, bitterness, pain, confusion, and anger. They grew larger overtime to where I completely wanted to shut God out of my life. I wanted someone to blame, so I blamed God. I did my best to indulge in things that weren’t pleasing in God’s sight as a way to “get back” at Him and bandage my wounds. The only thing that accomplished was more pain and misery. Three months later, I’m fighting the urge to repent. I continue to wrestle with God and for some reason, I returned to the Navs in January(despite efforts not to) and felt tremendous grief in my soul around February. I reached a breaking point which led me to seek out two Nav leaders for emotional and spiritual guidance. After a deep conversation with those two, I understood more of God’s love and was rescued from the rut I was in.
 
 
Since then, I’ve been trying to pursue Christ and live to honor Him. I’ve noticed a significant desire for Jesus, spending time in the Word, and wanting to help others. I wouldn’t have written this if not. I’m not perfect, I still struggle in these areas. It has been a real challenge throughout  because of constant setbacks, spiritual warfare, and my flesh. But I’m glad because I know that trials are meant for our greater good. Though the process is painful, it’s necessary in order to refine and shape us into the original masterpiece God intended us to be.
 
 
I really hope none of you are currently in a state where you’re not interested in Christ and His Word, prayer, being missional, serving, worshiping and having fellowship with other Christians for the glory of God. And instead pursuing fleeting desires of this world. If you are, I implore you; don’t take this path. It won’t do you any good. Just take a look at some examples in Exodus and Numbers. Since the 9th of November all the way through mid-late February, I’ve tried to harden my heart but it was a constant battle with God. No matter how many times (or how hard) I’ve tried, He just wouldn’t leave me alone. And He’s definitely not going to sit idly by and let you do the same.
 
 
If you are going through a tough season right now, then just know that it’s only a test. Once you pass the test, you’re going to see greater rewards at the end of the finish line. So please don’t give up. It may not seem like it now, but it will get better. If you question whether God will come through for you, let me ask you: has God ever once in the Bible made a promise He didn’t keep? If He says He’ll see you through, He WILL! (Psalm 33:4) If you’re still having doubts, it’s a clear indicator that you’re ignorant of the Word or you’re upset with not having things go your way. Life isn’t about you. It’s about God and what He wants to accomplish through you, for His glory, not yours. Things won’t always turn out the way you expect because God is the one in control. (Proverbs 16:9) His ways surpasses ours. (Isaiah 55:8, Romans 11:33) Look, that doesn’t mean God is indifferent towards you and your desires. God really does care and only wants what’s best for you that aligns with His will and timing since His plans are perfect (Psalm 18:30), and His timing is just right.(Ecclesiastes 3:11) Thus, I encourage you to draw closer to God and seek HIS desires instead of yours. Trust me, you’ll be glad you did. ;)  You’ll still continue to face challenges, but how you respond to them will make a huge difference. We all have choices and will continue to make them. You can either choose to turn to God and accept His purpose in your life or choose to abandon Him and go your own separate way.
 
 
My hope for writing this is that it helps at least one person. I hope something or maybe several things stood out to you to where you want to pursue Christ like never before. If something did resonate and you were encouraged, then yay it was all worth it! :D  And if not, then that’s okay! I’m just thankful you took the time to read this. :)  If you’re stuck in a rut and can’t seem to break old habits or maybe you’re unsure of where you stand spiritually because your life hasn’t produced any fruit, my best advice is spend time in the Word and engage in dialogue with God, don’t be afraid of listening to what He says. This will take practice, don’t expect perfection.  And make sure you’re not taking this journey alone. That was one of my biggest mistakes. Other Christians need what you bring to the table and vice versa so that the body of Christ can mature, be healthy, and complete. My prayer for you is that you will continually seek Jesus and want to be a good imitator of Him. And to keep pressing forward when you want to give up.
 
 
“Therefore, brethren, be even more diligent to make your call and election sure, for if you do these things you will never stumble; for so an entrance will be supplied to you abundantly into the everlasting kingdom of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.”-2 Peter 1:10-11
 

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Hmm, i've been there, actually I still am, problem with the bible for me is commitment, having a leap of faith and understanding how exactly the stories in the bible would have worked, I try not to doubt it but it's just with in me to question and rationalise everything in that book he made, for some reason I have so much haterid towards it, probably because of the amount of contradictions with in the book itself, which in return make people be drawn away from the faith in god, or just say "have faith and follow his word" right?, I did at one point but then I soon realised that it wasn't god that I needed but the people around me who I love and care about, they are most important to me, in all honesty when I use to go to church I only went because of the people, I never really had any kind of strong connection with god, never spoke to me, opened himself upto me, nothing ever felt any better with god because things just got worse, parents we're always arguing which made them split up and that made me depressed because I am a type 1 diabetic and I was going through hormones at the time, I was 15 then, and when I came to the lowest point in my life I prayed and hoped for an answer, but once again nothing so I came to the conclusion after one drastic action that it was people that are what really matter, for me god is just in a book, but we can see and know people which for me is enough, people are what make the world it is today, yes we might be full of sin and we can do horrible things but we've always been like that and even god cannot stop that, because he made us like it, if we weren't sinful or "natural" then we would not need a god, we would just need eachother, people are everything, god is only something that we have, yes he might do great things but so do we, not just because of god, but because of us, we now have doctors, scientists, vets, nurses and so many more to help the world, thing is god cannot stop sin so he'll just restart on judgement day and try again, trial and error, but he's perfect isn't he?, seems to me like it's just a pro-longed failure doesn't it?, but then we need failure in order to succeed, but that makes god limited, god can only observe because he connot interfere with what is natural, the perfect example is in the beggining, there was nothing, then god made light, the earth and the heavens, now here's the problem, he said that the light was "good" which means sin already existed because remember with good there is always evil, so in fact he could tell a difference which up's the factor that he wasn't the first god to be aware of his own existence, right?, now you go look into the multiverse theory and maybe your viewpoint will change, a little.

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Your first challenge is trying to read a book upside down and saying 'hey,this book is rubbish'.You are trying to know who God is without coming to Him to know Him. How would you have come to know your loved ones if you hadn't been close to them, without any form of prejudice (which you term rationalization)?

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I have just one advice for you: Get to see God as your loved one.The only difference between God and them is that no matter how long you keep hating and pushing Him away, His love will never give up on you.

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I have enjoyed the sweetest fellowship with my Father after a long period of doubt. Like you, I was over whelmed with all sorts of philosophical garbage - it is when you get deeper into philosophy that you'll understand why I call it garbage. But after I followed firmly the advice I just gave, I understood what Paul meant when he said that he considered everything he had gained rubbish, compared with the worth of knowing Christ.

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That's a wonderful testimony. You really have a way with words. You should be a writer or a Christian apologist. God bless you!

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