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Does he like me?, I need an honest opinion |
  Oct 28 2009, 01:04 PM
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Church Goer  Group: Resident Posts: 60 Joined: 9-April 08 From: South Dakota Member No.: 17,016 Gender : Female  |
Ok so there is this guy at my work. He is 16, I'm 14 going on 15 soon. He always finds ways to make me smile, every day I see him he greets me, and says hi. He calls me amazing, cool, and awsome. One day he called me Best Friend and then winked at me. He always looks at me, and one day he stood there and staired at me for about two minutes. I never looked back, now I wish I would have. Me and him both like Taylor Swift, we listen to music on the radio at work and we both sing along to the songs, but I just lip sing. He actually sings, one day I was watching him as he sung. And he smiled and said, " You like my singing Jessy? You want me to sing to you?" and I knew he was joking. Another day he came up to me and said, "If anyone messes with you I will mess them up". He is always nice to me, and we only see eachother on the weekends when I work. We somewhat talk but not all that much cuz it's work. We can't talk that much becouse were both always busy. So ya if you need more just message me...
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Oct 28 2009, 05:27 PM
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 Jesus Freak Group: Resident Posts: 268 Joined: 28-October 09 From: Canada Member No.: 26,971 Gender : Male |
The simplest solution of course is just asking him.
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Oct 28 2009, 05:47 PM
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 My bellah is looking at you! 0.o Group: Resident Posts: 854 Joined: 23-December 08 From: Searching still for the right place Member No.: 22,261 Gender : Female Name : Stephanie |
Wow they let you work at 14 there?
I would just take it slow. You are 14 and still quite young. I know that that is not what you want to hear but it is true. Be friends with this guy, since he seems decent, but I would just keep it as friends. |
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Oct 28 2009, 09:48 PM
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Catching On Group: Resident Posts: 48 Joined: 3-September 09 Member No.: 25,899 Gender : Male Name : Steve |
Hmm, it sounds like he might. Or he just thinks of you as a great friend. Maybe you could try flirting with him, give him signs that you like him too or something. thats all i got.
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Oct 30 2009, 05:15 PM
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 My personality is a bit colorful Group: Gentryman Posts: 2,552 Joined: 13-June 08 From: Out taking some pictures. Member No.: 18,599 Gender : Female |
Sounds like it could be either way to me. The only sure way to find out is to ask I guess.
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Oct 30 2009, 05:21 PM
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 Gettin' Crazy Group: Resident Posts: 891 Joined: 18-June 07 From: Atlanta. I was born in Pittsburgh though Member No.: 11,772 Gender : Male Name : Corey |
QUOTE One day he called me Best Friend and then winked at me QUOTE Me and him both like Taylor Swift, we listen to music on the radio at work and we both sing along to the songs Sounds like he would like you a whole lot more if you were a man |
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Oct 30 2009, 05:40 PM
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 I love wet cabs! Group: Resident Posts: 1,548 Joined: 26-July 09 From: Hick town... look it up Member No.: 25,113 Gender : Female Name : Its Sunni |
Okay I have a few things to say...
1. Maybe he really likes being friends with you. Don't over analyze anything, because remember; men are simple. Don't go full force on him with flirtatious come-ons because again, you don't know. 2. I think you should ask him. And if you like him then tell him that. Its good to have open conversation with this person so you aren't stuck in neutral. I mean, yes, its embarrassing, but its better to let him know how you feel because odds are he won't tell you first. But all in all, provided the information, I think he likes you. This post has been edited by heychicky818: Oct 30 2009, 05:40 PM |
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Oct 30 2009, 07:30 PM
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 That's hawt. Group: Resident Posts: 295 Joined: 5-August 09 Member No.: 25,245 Gender : Male Name : Stephen |
QUOTE (premiepower94 @ Oct 28 2009, 11:04 AM)  Me and him both like Taylor Swift... he doesnt like you. hes gay. |
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Oct 31 2009, 09:09 PM
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Church Goer Group: Resident Posts: 60 Joined: 9-April 08 From: South Dakota Member No.: 17,016 Gender : Female |
QUOTE (Stevo @ Oct 30 2009, 05:30 PM) he doesnt like you. hes gay. What on earth would make you think he is gay? Just cuz he likes a female singer? Also you guys are awsome, I am glade to have your opinion<sp then anyone elses. Everyone else says tell him and some people say not to. I think I will just stay friends with him. I am also super shy and I am glad that you guys are here for me. If anyone wants to they can pm me and we can talk about him or anything you want to know. You all are welcome to askk questions about him and all. Thanks again for your answers, I look foward to talking to you guys again! Thanks again! |
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Nov 1 2009, 12:19 AM
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 Jesus Freak Group: Resident Posts: 328 Joined: 19-September 09 From: USA Member No.: 26,505 Gender : Not Telling |
hahaha, one of my best guy friends loves taylor swift! and he's straight as an arrow.
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Nov 1 2009, 01:23 AM
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Gettin' Crazy Group: Resident Posts: 891 Joined: 18-June 07 From: Atlanta. I was born in Pittsburgh though Member No.: 11,772 Gender : Male Name : Corey |
QUOTE hahaha, one of my best guy friends loves taylor swift! and he's straight as an arrow He is in denial. A real man likes Poison and Motorhead! 
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Nov 1 2009, 02:24 AM
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 Hoping this would take you Home Group: Resident Posts: 1,081 Joined: 26-July 09 From: Dear mr ET. Member No.: 25,107 Gender : Female Name : Rhode |
QUOTE (senor @ Oct 28 2009, 05:27 PM) The simplest solution of course is just asking him. ^ QUOTE (Unconservative Christian @ Oct 30 2009, 05:21 PM) Sounds like he would like you a whole lot more if you were a man  my thoughts exactly... |
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Nov 1 2009, 07:14 PM
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That's hawt. Group: Resident Posts: 295 Joined: 5-August 09 Member No.: 25,245 Gender : Male Name : Stephen |
QUOTE (premiepower94 @ Oct 31 2009, 07:09 PM) What on earth would make you think he is gay? Just cuz he likes a female singer? not just a female singer. taylor swift. |
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Nov 9 2009, 09:09 PM
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Bible Thumper Group: Resident Posts: 161 Joined: 7-November 09 From: Massachusetts Member No.: 27,074 Gender : Not Telling Name : Peter |
I think either he cares a great deal for you as a friend or does like you very much. He has a desire to protect you from other guys and stuff like that so I think he probably does like you. I know If a guy ever messed with my best friend thats a girl who I like very much, I would break them.
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Nov 11 2009, 06:15 PM
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 Catching On Group: Newcomer Posts: 19 Joined: 20-February 09 Member No.: 23,202 Gender : Female Name : Jem |
QUOTE (Unconservative Christian @ Oct 30 2009, 10:21 PM) Sounds like he would like you a whole lot more if you were a man HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA HA I laughed Maybe not quite that much....  either: A) he is gay...  he doesn't like taylor swift and he says he does cos he likes you... orC) he is plain weird.... |
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Dec 7 2009, 08:10 PM
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Catching On Group: Newcomer Posts: 3 Joined: 7-December 09 Member No.: 27,452 Gender : Not Telling |
My grand-father aways said this to me.
"Love starts with friendship" So think about it and don't rush things;you have your whole life ahead of you |
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Dec 9 2009, 11:35 PM
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 Junior Detective Group: Resident Posts: 1,487 Joined: 6-June 08 From: Frozen in carbonite Member No.: 18,470 Gender : Male Name : Lawliet |
Hes a 16 year old male, he will like 90% of the female population anyway. regardless you are too young to be dating in my opinion, and heres a thought, when was the last time you saw a married couple that stayed together in a relationship from age 15/16? I for one, have not. young teens generally lack the maturity to enter into a relationship to begin with sooooo just remain friends, if in a couple of years you feel the same way then go for it. just my 3 cents.
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Dec 10 2009, 10:13 PM
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Church Goer Group: Resident Posts: 103 Joined: 17-June 09 Member No.: 24,626 Gender : Male |
Cheesy as hell, but, if it's true love it will stand the test of time. You two are both young and have a lot to learn about the world. I know the last thing your heart is telling you is to wait, and I hate to break it to you, but hearts are commonly mistaken. Now, experience in dating does help you learn, but at this vulnerable, emotional stage this guy could really hurt you, or even vice-versa. Like I said, if you two really have something special, it will last. He probably makes you feel amazing, and you want to hold onto that feeling, but it's not going to last forever. You need to find out more about this guy after the feeling is over, rather than chase it and meet up with a dead end.
As for Taylor Swift... eh, I wouldn't call him the most sophisticated when it comes to taste in music. But that doesn't automatically mean you need an operation to be his type. |
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Dec 10 2009, 10:15 PM
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 Whale Magnet Group: Gentryman Posts: 3,221 Joined: 29-November 08 Member No.: 21,867 Gender : Male Name : Karen |
He sounds creepy. Make up a 6', giant of a boyfriend to discourage his attempts with.
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Dec 11 2009, 12:59 AM
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That's hawt. Group: Resident Posts: 295 Joined: 5-August 09 Member No.: 25,245 Gender : Male Name : Stephen |
QUOTE (-L- @ Dec 9 2009, 08:35 PM) Hes a 16 year old male, he will like 90% of the female population anyway. regardless you are too young to be dating in my opinion, and heres a thought, when was the last time you saw a married couple that stayed together in a relationship from age 15/16? I for one, have not. young teens generally lack the maturity to enter into a relationship to begin with sooooo just remain friends, if in a couple of years you feel the same way then go for it. just my 3 cents. who says they have to aim for marriage? cant they just enjoy each other and stay together as long as they want? either way, i still think dating a gay guy is wrong |
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Dec 11 2009, 11:27 PM
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Church Goer Group: Resident Posts: 103 Joined: 17-June 09 Member No.: 24,626 Gender : Male |
QUOTE (Stevo @ Dec 11 2009, 12:59 AM) who says they have to aim for marriage? cant they just enjoy each other and stay together as long as they want? Of course - that'd be very healthy. But then why on earth would they need the label of "boyfriend and girlfriend" just to enjoy each other's company? I'll never understand teen society's obsession with these trite and practically useless labels. When you're aiming for marriage, then you're boyfriend and girlfriend because you are romantically involved. But, if you have no intention for marriage, then what good does being someone's girlfriend really do? Does it make a girl feel better about herself because she knows she's loved? If that's the case then she can only be happy when she feels accepted, indicating extreme issues of confidence and self-esteem. The only other reason a boyfriend-girlfriend thing is required is if the two people need some sort of label to justify their going places together, which again indicates how society has de-emotionalized the most intrinsic actions caused by our social natures. Can't two people just go places together because they like spending time together? Why do they have to be boyfriend and girlfriend if they can't see themselves actually having a life together? I'm sorry I just puked all over your thread, TC, but this has been on my mind a while. Why really would someone need to know if a person likes him or her unless it's because he/she could forsee a lasting relationship? If a person wants to spend time with another person, one should spend time with him/her; I don't see why the formal "going out" label has to be established or suddenly it's "weird." |
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Dec 14 2009, 10:25 AM
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 Post Happy Group: Resident Posts: 818 Joined: 9-November 09 From: Florin Member No.: 27,102 Gender : Female Name : Buchanan |
Hmmmm.
Maybe he likes you. Maybe he doesn't. It's difficult to tell. What I can say is this: you may be a little too young to date, although that depends on your maturity. Aaaand he's 16, ye say? Hmm |
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