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 Oct 9 2009, 12:12 PM
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 Church Goer  Group: Resident Posts: 64 Joined: 23-March 09 From: Chesterfield Virginia Member No.: 23,607 Gender : Male Name : Matt  |
Well the other day I was on a soical networking site called Myyearbook and I met this girl, we talked for about 2 hours and I got to know her pretty well (she is a christian btw), I gave her my cell# and we have been texting the last couple days as well. Today when we were talking we decided we should both tell our parents that we are doing this sort of pen pla thing, and my questions is what would be the right way to tell my dad about her without him getting on me about internet saftey, any advice???
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Oct 11 2009, 09:15 PM
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 "My personality is a bit colorful" Group: Resident Posts: 1,473 Joined: 13-June 08 Member No.: 18,599 Gender : Female |
I don't think it's a big deal really.
Just tell your dad "Hey I met this person and we've been talking and I just want to let you know it's nothing creepy, it's completely innocent." That's what I think anyway. This post has been edited by horsesforlife: Oct 11 2009, 09:24 PM |
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Oct 11 2009, 09:17 PM
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 Derek Zoolander University of Modelling for Men. Group: Resident Posts: 1,871 Joined: 4-July 08 From: Auckland, I know you're jealous non-JAFA's Member No.: 19,004 Gender : Not Telling Name : Derek |
Get her on webcam and show your family. It's the best way to find out whether someone is actually Pedobear or not.
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Oct 13 2009, 01:24 AM
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 That's hawt. Group: Resident Posts: 283 Joined: 5-August 09 Member No.: 25,245 Gender : Male Name : Stephen |
tell him its not actually a girl, but a 45 year old man. hell be relieved knowing you wont have sexual attractions for him, and let you give your address away.
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Oct 17 2009, 01:09 AM
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Catching On Group: Banned Posts: 14 Joined: 17-October 09 Member No.: 26,828 Gender : Not Telling |
just tell him you're talking to a cool girl, get pictures of her and all that, maybe add her to a social networking site for proof or something. maybe call her? i don't know. make sure you know for sure she's who she says she is before you tell your parents/fall for her.
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Oct 17 2009, 08:41 PM
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That's hawt. Group: Resident Posts: 283 Joined: 5-August 09 Member No.: 25,245 Gender : Male Name : Stephen |
QUOTE (Rachita @ Oct 11 2009, 06:17 PM)  Get her on webcam and show your family. It's the best way to find out whether someone is actually Pedobear or not. it could be a trap. |
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Oct 25 2009, 11:31 PM
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 Bible Thumper Group: Resident Posts: 129 Joined: 11-September 08 Member No.: 20,135 Gender : Male |
If there's no sort of impropriety going on I don't see why involving your dad is necessary at all.
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Nov 3 2009, 01:38 PM
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 Jesus Freak Group: Resident Posts: 348 Joined: 23-July 07 From: Florida Member No.: 12,583 Gender : Female |
Pray about it and ask God to just show you the way. It sounds innocent to me, but I'm not there. I have a friend that I met on here and we've been friends for about 2 years. We webcam occasionally and are really close. Just relax it's perfectly fine to have an online friend, just set up some ground rules like no meeting and no addresses but other than that you should be fine. It's fun to have a pen pal and I think that it's a testament to her character that she wants you to be open with your parents about the relationship.
 Hope this helps, LUV ya!
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Nov 3 2009, 06:06 PM
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 Holy Roller Group: Resident Posts: 628 Joined: 8-August 08 From: The Lone Star State! (TX) Member No.: 19,663 Gender : Female Name : Ashley |
Just tell your folks, let them know that you want to talk to this person but also let them know that if they say "hey lets meet in a dark alley, next to my van with doors that only lock from the outside!!!! <3" You know you have a problem. I personally see E-mail penpals as pretty harmless as long as you keep a good head about it.
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