What do you think?
Just sit there and kiss and kiss,
Lay there beside, on top, bottom? (Is it wrong to?) Is it considered foreplay if you do so?
What do you think?
Just sit there and kiss and kiss,
Lay there beside, on top, bottom? (Is it wrong to?) Is it considered foreplay if you do so?
I'd rather live day to day like there is a God and die and find out there isn't. Then to live day to day like there is no God and die and find out there is.
Dying for us is the most He Can Do, Living for HIM is the Least we can do.
If it's just kissing LIPS (you know.. the lips on your face) then it's not foreplay.
It's all good, in my opinion.
I think that you should do whatever you feel comfortable with, so long as you can control yourself.
I would say that all that stuff you mentioned is okay though.
But then again, it all depends on how comfortable someone feels about it.
Don't do anything you don't feel comfortable with.
"Today, I will be happier than a bird with a french fry"
"Life isn't about finding yourself, it's about creating yourself"
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The only time things go "too far" is when it goes further than you want to go or you feel uncomfortable
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You know what they say: you can lead a herring to water, but you have to walk really fast or he'll die.
It depends on your conscience. I'd say a good tip to follow- keep affection public- or at least use the open door policy. It's a whole lot easier for "just a kiss" to end up "something more" when the door is shut... make sure you and your bf set clear boundaries about how far you want to go. And anything leading to sex is def off limits!
Think about a few things- for one, is he someone you could marry? Is this going to be a long term relationship? You don't want to start off with some major kissing and have nowhere to go and struggle with lust until you got married or broke up would you? For example, I know I'm not going to be getting married for at LEAST two years... more like 7 or 8! But when I was dating someone I considered that and set a lot more conservative boundaries for that reason. Pray together before you hang out too! Seriously, it will help you keep focused on God!
If we consider the unblushing promises of reward and the staggering nature of the rewards promised in the Gospels, it would seem that Our Lord finds our desires not too strong, but too weak. We are half-hearted creatures, fooling about with drink and sex and ambition when infinite joy is offered us, like an ignorant child who wants to go on making mud pies in a slum because he cannot imagine what is meant by the offer of a holiday at the sea. We are far too easily pleased. -CS Lewis
i agreeThe only time things go "too far" is when it goes further than you want to go or you feel uncomfortable[/b]
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I'm not sure.
I'm thinking kissing is fine, it's more a worry of where your hands and minds are wandering to. If it's causing you some lust issues, maybe you should rethink. If your hands are developing lives and personalities of their own, then you're going too far, I think. Also, keep it lip on lip contact. Keep away from necks, I'd recommend. They seem to be quite... arousing.
All I'd say is be very careful, because it's not a road to sin, it's a greased, steep slide. Once you start sliding, it could be pretty hard to stop.
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AMEN! Make sure that everything you do glorifys God. And alsoset your bounderies to where you can handle it without any perverse thinking. Oh yeah once you have set the rules for you and your significant other, you have to stick to them! :angel2:All I'd say is be very careful, because it's not a road to sin, it's a greased, steep slide. Once you start sliding, it could be pretty hard to stop.[/b]
But isn't it hard not to be thinking of anything? Guys hormones go haywire, so do women in certain ways.
Am I allowed to post an outside link to back up what Im saying?But isn't it hard not to be thinking of anything? Guys hormones go haywire, so do women in certain ways.[/b]
Its a small video from The Doctors Show
I'd rather live day to day like there is a God and die and find out there isn't. Then to live day to day like there is no God and die and find out there is.
Dying for us is the most He Can Do, Living for HIM is the Least we can do.
I agree :yes:The only time things go "too far" is when it goes further than you want to go or you feel uncomfortable[/b]
"Today, I will be happier than a bird with a french fry"
"Life isn't about finding yourself, it's about creating yourself"
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