(:Becca(: Posted June 20, 2011 Share Posted June 20, 2011 How do you guys define being "whipped" and do you see that as a good or bad thing? (Not giving my opinion just yet ^^) A whipped man is one who just does what he's told with no question. My ex who is no longer allowed to speak to anyone he was previously involved with is a good example. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SigmaDelta Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 How do you guys define being "whipped" and do you see that as a good or bad thing? (Not giving my opinion just yet ^^) I agree with Becca. I tend to be called whipped a lot because I always do what other people want me to do. Not because I'm whipped, but because I'm nice... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
(:Becca(: Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 ^ Not sure that counts as whipped if you're just generally a nice person, amongst my friends "whipped" tends to get used in specifically boyfriend-girlfriend context, a man is usually "whipped" by his other half. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Christopherjr Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 ^ Not sure that counts as whipped if you're just generally a nice person, amongst my friends "whipped" tends to get used in specifically boyfriend-girlfriend context, a man is usually "whipped" by his other half. Agreed. It's generally used in Relationship context... Oh, and @Sgt. Gimpy... no, it's not a good thing. It's one thing to be nice and to have a desire to please your Girlfriend... it's another when you do exactly what she says, as soon she says it, every time she says something. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sadlypoetic Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 Define unique hmm... I've been called goth and emo but I'm not. I like color but mostly muted and more dark ones. I'm very modest. I were long sleeves and often jackets or sweaturs when it's 108 outside and don't care. I like crosses and and somewhat gothic jewelry. But not flashy or bulky. I'm just plain wierd but try to were stuff that's stylish and in good taste. Oh and I often were knee length skirts with tights and long socks. Umm guys. What would you think if a girl said she couldn't go to the grocery store or walk across the street and ect. By herself cause of debilitating social anxiety? Would that sound reall pathetic and make you think poorly of her? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Buoyancy Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 Dyed hair? Like it, leave it,doesn't matter unless it looks fake...doesn't matter period? I'm curious... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
✟ Keep.Your.Head.Up ✟ Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 Dyed hair? Like it, leave it,doesn't matter unless it looks fake...doesn't matter period? I'm curious... doesnt matter as long as it at least looks somewhat natural (dont overdue it) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
curryjacket Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 @SadlyPoetic Um yeah. I'd think badly of her. >.> @Boogles I'm cool with dyed hair. Just keep it up and don't let your roots show. That starts looking nasty. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sadlypoetic Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 ^ I guess I might have to get on some heavy meds then:( Would it make a difference if you already knew her well and she was a really nice person? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Buoyancy Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 ^ I guess I might have to get on some heavy meds then:( I used to be scared of socail gatherings too. Turned out I needed some vision issues corrected. Go figure. I'd say see if you've got some kind of vision problem before you go on some medication. Is playfully calling a girl miss a sign that you're flirting? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sadlypoetic Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 I used to be scared of socail gatherings too. Turned out I needed some vision issues corrected. Go figure. I'd say see if you've got some kind of vision problem before you go on some medication.Is playfully calling a girl miss a sign that you're flirting? It's not so much gatherings. It's any situation were I'm seen heard and judged which is pretty much any time I'm seen or heard. Being OCD I did a bunch of research and figured out what I believe caused. I got 20/20 vision though. I'm luck I live out in the country if I had close neighers I wouldn't go out doors. I know it's pathetic bu I can't really help it it's medical and psychological. Doesn't make it feel any better though just cause I can't help it. Guys what's a good way to tell a you like him? ---------- Post added at 04:32 PM ---------- Previous post was at 03:59 PM ---------- Umm guys. What would you think if a girl said she couldn't go to the grocery store or walk across the street and ect. By herself cause of debilitating social anxiety? Would that sound reall pathetic and make you think poorly of her? I'm just re-asking cause this was on the last page and I only got one answer... And guys would it be a big issue if your gf's mom wouldn't let you hugor hold hands? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paper Towels Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 Dyed hair? Like it, leave it,doesn't matter unless it looks fake...doesn't matter period? I'm curious... I like any and all dyed hair as long as it looks nice. And guys would it be a big issue if your gf's mom wouldn't let you hugor hold hands? yes, because it sets a tone of irrationality that would never have a cessation as long as I remain in a relationship with that girlfriend. And if we one day get married it seems the mother will always have some sort of criticism for me, my gf, or us both. Umm guys. What would you think if a girl said she couldn't go to the grocery store or walk across the street and ect. By herself cause of debilitating social anxiety? Would that sound reall pathetic and make you think poorly of her? No i would certainly not think poorly of her, I would feel bad for her and try to help her. And the first thing I would do is take her to a busy intersection, take off my pants and walk across the street in my boxers, then I would walk back to her on the other side and eloquently explain to her that no street crossing will ever be as socially awkward as the one she just witnessed and she would do well to remember it next time and take solace in the fact that she walks across the street fully clothed which will in turn reduce the anxiety associated with it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alaina.X.loves.X.you Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 This sounds kind of silly...what does it *usually* mean if a guy tells you that you're gorgeous? Like, is it a step above "beautiful"? Is there really that much significance in word usage between pretty/beautiful/gorgeous? A guy I've kind of been talking to always greets me with, "Hey gorgeous." It's endearing..but I'm just kind of curious if there is a specific meaning tied to that word? Or if it just means he finds me attractive? Lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sadlypoetic Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 Oh Matt that made me smile so big. Well it's a relief that maybe my irl guy friends won't think I suck(if I ever have any) because of this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Escapist Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 Guys what's a good way to tell a you like him? Shave "Will you go out with me? (circle: yes/no)" into the side of a goat and let it loose in his backyard. DISCLAIMER: This could be misconstrued by the guy. And guys would it be a big issue if your gf's mom wouldn't let you hugor hold hands? Yeah, partially because it would mean I'm a 20 yr old guy dating a 14 yr old. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Squishy Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 Dyed hair? Like it, leave it,doesn't matter unless it looks fake...doesn't matter period? I'm curious... If you're going for blonde or brown/ highlights/ natural look, it has to look natural. Completely fake bright colours are fantastic (if you can handle having hair like that O_o). Non-natural black hair... i dunno, sometimes it works. And guys would it be a big issue if your gf's mom wouldn't let you hugor hold hands? That would be super awkward. That just seems like the mother is telling the boyfriend to fudge off. This sounds kind of silly...what does it *usually* mean if a guy tells you that you're gorgeous? Like, is it a step above "beautiful"? Is there really that much significance in word usage between pretty/beautiful/gorgeous? A guy I've kind of been talking to always greets me with, "Hey gorgeous." It's endearing..but I'm just kind of curious if there is a specific meaning tied to that word? Or if it just means he finds me attractive? Lol. There's not really any difference between gorgeous or beautiful. Pretty on the other hand, as guy we get told not to call girls pretty because it is apparently too bland and just seems like something we don't mean. Doesn't mean we will remember to not call you pretty though =P. Yeah, partially because it would mean I'm a 20 yr old guy dating a 14 yr old. 20yr olds can live with their mothers too =O Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BunnySlippersMan Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 Oops, sorry thought of some more:1) What is your opinion on shy girls, are they dull or endearing? 2) This one sounds really strange I know but would it bother you if your girlfriend was a lot shorter than you or looked a lot younger even if they acted mature and stuff? Shy girls almost always come across as endearing.Like, I just want to hug you! No, I would like it, i don't want a girl who looks older than me, or taller. I like girls small and feminine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Buoyancy Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 Is playfully calling a girl "Miss (insert first name here) " youre way of being flirtatious? I need an answer! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
curryjacket Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 ^ Like, 99% of the time, yes. Sometimes I just say it jokingly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BunnySlippersMan Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 This sounds kind of silly...what does it *usually* mean if a guy tells you that you're gorgeous? Like, is it a step above "beautiful"? Is there really that much significance in word usage between pretty/beautiful/gorgeous? A guy I've kind of been talking to always greets me with, "Hey gorgeous." It's endearing..but I'm just kind of curious if there is a specific meaning tied to that word? Or if it just means he finds me attractive? Lol. If I call a girl gorgeous, it's because I want to make her smile,because I like her, and love it when she smiles/is happy. But I would also only say that if I actually thought she WAS gorgeous of course,and I would not say it to a "just friend". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
(:Becca(: Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 I used to be scared of socail gatherings too. Turned out I needed some vision issues corrected. Go figure. I'd say see if you've got some kind of vision problem before you go on some medication.Is playfully calling a girl miss a sign that you're flirting? I was once called "Miss Prefect" by a guy working in Subway when I went in in my uniform and I hadn't been sacked from being a school prefect, accompanied by that look. He possibly just had a creepy Catholic schoolgirl thing. XD So watch out for that one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BunnySlippersMan Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 I need an answer! again something I would say to try to get a smile out of her. And yeah I would be in a flirty mood most likely. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sadlypoetic Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 Shave "Will you go out with me? (circle: yes/no)" into the side of a goat and let it loose in his backyard.DISCLAIMER: This could be misconstrued by the guy. Yeah, partially because it would mean I'm a 20 yr old guy dating a 14 yr old. Lol! And actually I'm 17. But I'm still a minor till I'm 18 and even then till I'm married and moved out it's my moms way or well.. My moms way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Buoyancy Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 again something I would say to try to get a smile out of her. And yeah I would be in a flirty mood most likely. Good. The guy who said that to me is one I've been crushing on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Themeiwanttobe Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 ^Well, I wouldn't be sure; It depends on how he said it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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